I was wondering if people gets headaches as often as I do about paradoxes like: "If I we're a girl I would surely do that but if I we're a girl, my path in life would have been different so I can't say that I would have done this another way nor can I really grasp what kind of life I would have had" and so on and on... Am I the only one who stays up at night wondering about things that have absolutely no sense at all?