Do you ever feel lonely?

loneliness is a feeling where we feel empty, where life was quiet, at which time we look forward to welcoming someone who can treat kerinduaan in our hearts

 

@pupal
It appears that you have found effective ways to combat lonliness,well done
@kadex putra
I am not familiar with this word "kerinduaan",what does it mean?

 

I felt lonely every time i was left alone..fortunately, i have lots of friends now and i can be with them every time i want to

 

@M A Kay
Friends as far as I'm concerned are life's greatest treasure and joy.It's good that because of your friends,you no longer have to deal with loneliness.Making friends is easy,there really therefore is no need for anyone of us to be lonely.

 

I'd rather be lonely then have fake friends. Life isn't a popularity contest.

 

I get lonely sometimes at night.

 

I feel many times loneliness... any one tell me on that time what should i do?

 

I dont feel so alone,,
Coz she ever stay in my heart

 

@dcristo
Given the choice you described,I'd have to say that I agree with you.
@moosegal
At night it's dark and quiet and this can bring on the onsets of emotions that are somewhat hidden in the daytime,due to being busy with work etc.
@Agem
Try playing music or picking up the phone and talking to someone you know when feelings of loneliness come apon you.
@Virgun
You don't feel lonely because someone loves you and you know it.You are more fortunate than many here.

 

but now i am happy at all.

 

@Vinil Mehta
The way you wrote it could be you are happy or not happy.But you put a happy face at the end of your sentence,so I'll presume the former.If you are happy then you don't know loneliness,in this we have something in common.
I have read the threads on here and am still no further ahead as to understanding the concept of loneliness.I only know there are many who suffer from this.
For me it's all so simple.If you feel lonely either pick up the phone or go and visit someone,be pro active.....problem solved.

 

yes I'm feeling now

 

@greenicon
Yes but you are here interacting on DP.Does this not help chase away feelings of loneliness?

 

Why should it? There is so much negativity on this forum its ridiculous.

It also depends on your definition of loneliness.

You can have friends and always be in a social setting or talking to someone, but still feel loneliness.

 

@dcristo
True but there are also people on DP gifted with a good sense of humor,and there are also deep thinkers such as yourself.Interacting with these different personalities can help get people off of themselves,even if only for a short time.This can chase feelings of loneliness away,do you not agree?

 

I think that it can help, but it will not fix the problem and the deeper issues.

 

@dcristo
Quite right,only a temporary fix for sure.But even that I believe is better than the despair of loneliness.While I myself do not suffer from this,I have seen the effects in others.Whatever works...even for short term is of benefit I believe.

 

kerinduan is a Bhasha Indonesia word, loosely meaning "Longing for something"

 

I feel lonely without my girlfriend

 

@The Webby
Thanks for that.
@www.magicaldentistry.com
I'm glad that you miss your girlfriend.This will make you appreciate her and you will love her even more when you see her.But your loneliness is only temporary,it only happens when she is gone yes?