Do you ever feel lonely?

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  1. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    #81
    @Emily88
    Keeping busy can help combat feelings of lonliness.Idleness gives too much free time to dwell on it.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Jul 26, 2011 IP
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    #82
    What a wonderful advice. It made my day ;) Thanks
     
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  3. Spoiltdiva

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    #83
    @jaywebdev
    You're welcome,thanks for the post.
     
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    #84
    Yeah usually in the evenings, but it's not as bad as it used to be 6 months ago...
     
    dme3, Jul 29, 2011 IP
  5. Spoiltdiva

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    #85
    @dme3
    A lot of people feel lonely in the evening because they are tired and there is less light.Light therapy can help with these feelings.But it is a positive that you feel less lonely than you did 6 months ago.
     
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    #86
    Winter is probably the worst, when you come home from work and it's already dark outside :)
     
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  7. Spoiltdiva

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    #87
    @dme3
    What you are describing is S.A.D. otherwise known as "seasonal affective disorder".Many people are adversly affected by lack of light and suffer such manifestations as depression,mood swings,anxiety and a general feeling of tiredness.Light therapy has proven to have much benifit to those who suffer from S.A.D. A small rectangular frame surrounded by fluroescant lights set on a desk works wonders.Just two 15 minute sessions per day with your face towards the frame makes a difference.You ought to give it a try.[o]
     
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    #88
    I'm lonely now and I feel so alone :(

    Spoiltdiva, do you want to keep me company?
     
    g36, Jul 30, 2011 IP
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    #89
    @g36
    Well I'm sorry that you're feeling lonely but hooking up with me might not solve that problem.I can be a real bitch at times and can be cranky too.I am not nessesaily always the best company.[o]
     
    Spoiltdiva, Jul 30, 2011 IP
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    #90
    sometimes feel lonely
    but I enjoying my life very much.
     
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  11. Spoiltdiva

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    #91
    @seoforever1
    You feel lonely occasionaly but still enjoy your life,this denotes a positive attitude.
     
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    #92
    As of right now I honestly never feel lonely, but my girlfriend is moving for school in less then a month. Loneliness commence.
     
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    #93
    @Gumper01
    The fact that you are expecting to be lonely just means that you love her and appreciate her very much.
     
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    #94
    Yes some times i feel loneliness and it is true that "We're born alone, we live alone, we die alone. Only through our love and friendship can we create the illusion for the moment that we're not alone.'
     
    Alicia Madison, Jul 31, 2011 IP
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    #95
    i feel lonely many times but i can manage.
     
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    #96
    @Alicia Madison
    If you think about it we are always alone.We have a secret longing to be reattached to the umbilical cord where we were safe,nurtured and cared for.Subconsciousy we never quite get over leaving the safety and security of our mothers bodies.But such is life,we must persevere and go on.
     
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    #97
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    As long as you are able to manage lonliness it's not an issue.When you cannot and it leads to depression then it becomes a very serious issue.
     
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    #98
    living lonely in home means this is also one type of enjoyment.....when my parents went out for any function or any relation's home i am enjoy lonely in my home but we only do all work like preparing food, cleaning home etc,,,,,but its very nice only...some times only
     
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    #99
    @logaseo
    It's always good to hear from you.I enjoy your e-mails and you are one of my favorite people on here.[o]You sound very close to your parents.But you keep busy when they are gone and that helps you so that you don't miss them as much.
     
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    #100
    I feel lonely because I (as matter of fact) am lonely. I live alone and don't have many friends.

    I too can a be jerk sometimes, can be cranky too, but I don't show it outside, just like when I'm sad, I don't show it outside. I have good anger management, so I rarely yell at people, etc.

    Anyway, just trying to be friends ;)
     
    Last edited: Jul 31, 2011
    g36, Jul 31, 2011 IP