okay so the deal is. i can't seem to be myself around my boyfriends friends and family. its like somehow i am prevented from opening my mouth and idn why. around my friends family or strangers i am fine its just his friends and family..anyway my boyfriend asked why i am so shy around his family and friends and i did not answer because im not sure myself..has anyone been in this situation before?
the same situation goes to my girl friend too. when i have questioned her with the same as your boy friend, she just replied that "they are new to me" (and the new world i am seeing, it may take some time to comfort myself in the new world)
I guess its normal to be a little shy around the parents of your "boyfriend/girlfriend". I'm sure you'll get used to them overtime. However, to answer your question, I wouldn't say that all guys want a girl that's very outgoing, as some like to be the opposite.