anyone divorce here ? i going to divoce soon and i feel sad and down, i just realize it this morning .... any solution to help me ?
Just take it 1 day at time. I've never been divorced and am still with my wife with 1 child and 1 more on the way. But I can imagine it would be horrible. You guys should really try and talk it out and see if you can salvage the marriage. Concluding to a divorce is never the right answer and both of you should see a marriage counselor.
we try to talk it out before, result ain what we expect .... seriously a bit down for the moment, not sure what going on for tomorrow and day after ....
Sorry to hear that you and your partner are going to divorce, after talking and still didn't get what you've been expected. Think again and again, if it's what you both wanted. Can I ask you, do you considered the feelings of your child if there's any.?
i am happy coz i am not married but 4 those of u who are married and planning to get divorce , talk it out and sort it out n take a chill pill
it ain't easy to talk, it must be my bad till this stage. i just came back from 22 hour work but i still awake, i think i need to solve this asap, else i going to be crazy ....
We were raised by a woman. And now we are supposed to live the rest of our lives with one? I have never been married and actually I don't want to either. I want to be a free man with a new girl every week. I want to do whatever I want and waste my money on the stupidest things ever without having permission of a female. I'm free and I love it! This was probably not the answer you wanted but this is how I consider a marriage. If you're going to be divorced, enjoy it while it lasts. That's the only opinion I can give you.
I do want to get married someday but I believe that if you really can't stand being together it's ok to get divorced.
we try, but the swing, flip which make me can't take it .... we can be perfect for 3 day and out of sudden she will tell you to stop everything, i think it gone, relation between us is no longer exit.
Well unfortunately here in our country divorce is not legal, we only have separation & annulment. Mind if I ask how many times you try to fix the relation? I mean maybe there are still ways to fix it up,things like this really happens & I know the hardship you have to overcome.Just keep calm every time,relax & think about of it a hundred or more times,maybe you still want to save the relationship, think again.
I have never been married nor divorced, I know its sad and frustrating, seeing the life that you wanted with your wife didn't end up as the way you planned. Then again, think of it as a new life, you still got your kids to take care of plus, you'll be free from the fights and all. It'll be hard at first but sooner or later you'll realize its not the end of the world. Good luck!
If you can not live with your spouse any more, then divorce. If you still love your spouse, give it a try. Make sure that you won't regret.
problem from my side, i just can't calm down, try my best to calm down for everything, i always fail ... now life difficult, i can't even think or concentrate, this morning i try to go out for some walk, even fail on doing it, i'm not sure for everything now, no direction, no focus basically like walking dead ... why life have to be like this, i'm not trying to blame but is really hard time now ..