"That’s the destiny!?" How many times have you heard this sentence? How many have you said it? Have you ever had a deep feeling inside you which forces you to leave something to destiny? But the fact which I am going to write about is that it could have both negative and positive effect on your life depending on how you think about it. Some accidents in life, in a way, are out of our control. May be not totally out of our control but we were not completely right fore every single step. Then, you have to leave it to an insensible fact. You have to share the pressure of difficult situation with something else. That could be the destiny. It is not important if it is real or not, the way you come across with it, is the key. Imagine yourself trying hard for a goal (definitely you have experienced it before) days and nights. You use all your abilities to achieve what you are dreaming about. You have prepared all the necessary foundations in order to make your dream comes true but, at the end, what you get is apparently far away from what you aimed. that may make you sad, disappointed and weak or may push you to further attempts, whatever it yields to is not what you were thinking. It is the time that our view of looking at accidence shapes our life. One side of scenario is when you say, “It was always like that! That’s my destiny! I can never achieve it! It is not what I expect", get disappointed and leave what you were trying fore. In the other side, you can say, “Although it looks different from what I expecting but may be here is a context for better achievements! This is my destiny which will be the best for me!" obviously that ideology will encourage inside you for working harder toward your goal. Some times it seems difficult to deny or accept destiny. Destiny was always an unclear phenomenon but could shape your life good or bad depending on how you are looking at it. Look beautifully to live beautiful. By Sina H.