If you are talking about komirad.com - I would suggest taking a look at webpagesthatsuck.com and then try to redesign your site, Good Luck!
Well the site is too messy and has a very simple design, especially the chat section on the right, doesn't fit there.
The white contrasts the background a bit too much, try changing it to a light colored grey background.
The page is too scattered for me. I couldn't focus on any point, as my attention kept getting distracted with something else on the page.
Seems busy .. I got a bit confused .. then i realized it was a toplist .. For some reason I thought it was a proxy good luck