These questions should be cleared with adsense before placing ads. Show them the UR and ask them to avoid ban.
Hmmmm, are dating sites considered as adult content? Unless it's something like a swingers site I doubt it will be a problem.
Yiu could also try to cross sell adult dating if you're running a "regular" dating site. Should be pretty targeted traffic. PM me for good program I'm successful with.
There are plenty of dating sites with adsense on them. Unless you deal with seedy content, you should be fine.
i got a warning about mature content and my site has no nudity there ... i had to remove google from all parts of the site which discussed sex and intimacy stuff (the site is dating and relationship advice forum)
yea just keep away from slightly or adult content and the big G should be fine with the site. always ask them if you are fearing a ban.