I'm going to guess: cssmates.com Now you sound egotistical! The only thing I see wrong is it hits me when I first look at your site. Everything is over-loaded. Maybe a simple introduction layer would help me understand who the forum is directed at. Is it Professional CSS designers or people wanting to learn ect.
There's nothing wrong with Vanilla, you just sound like you're being too stubborn to learn how to use new software. Anyways, I always liked the design of the site. Well done, and good luck with the community.
Yes, Vanilla is a bit weird if you're not used to it. I like the logo design, colors and placement though.
I really liked the layout, everything else looks great. But what's with the favicon? is that your logo and not that red tag?
the site look great realy nice design it is hard to know its a forum and at the pottom where it says design by the background dose not flow all the way
personally the design of the site looks great but from the first impression I also had trouble noticing that it was a forum until I paid a little attention.
site loads very slow. homepage is so crowded and hard to navigate, and doesnt look like a forum at all.