I need to break the <ol><li> structure and replace it with <div>'s so I can display 2 inputs on one row. Any sudjestions or ideas?
The <ol> and <li>'s are in the cform.php file there are a lot of functions containing those tags you need to replace them all in order to work. PS. A lot of styling is needed too.
You could also try Contact Form 7, in which you can control how the form is displayed. You can use unordered lists, tables, definition lists, etc.