Casual sex Good/Bad? Right/Wrong?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by diarmuid, Nov 2, 2007.

  1. ::Mike::

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    #21
    I disagree, I know lots of people that prefer relationship sex.
     
    ::Mike::, Nov 3, 2007 IP
  2. gemini181

    gemini181 Well-Known Member

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    #22
    Can you offer us a better vision than her, please??
     
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  3. allout

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    #23
    If it is between two consenting adults, it is their business to decide what is best for them. Sex is good and not wrong even though many religions try to teach you that it is.
    If you are careful(safe) having casual sex and the other person is a consenting adult who knows what they are in it for, than I see nothing wrong with it. The exceptions are if you are married or committed to someone else, the other person is under legal age, or you are using the other person for sex while portraying something else to them.

    As for a relationship based purely on sex, it is ok for booty calling but not as a basis for a lifelong relationship. Sex at 20 something is not the same as 40 something and all sex lives change and if that is the only basis for the relationship, you are doomed to fail. Friends with benefits are great if that is all you both are looking for.
     
    allout, Nov 3, 2007 IP
  4. pharcyded

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    #24
    OMFG...Pamela Anderson?? ROFL! She looks horrible these days man. Maybe if we were having this discussion in 1990 it would be different but we're not...lol.
     
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  5. bangalore

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    #25
    If I wasn’t married, I probably would think that it is good.
     
    bangalore, Nov 3, 2007 IP
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    #26
    bad bad bad...
     
    rijoh2003, Nov 3, 2007 IP
  7. Tokio

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    #27
    Heh, yes, I'm serious. I'm really not a casual sex person. But I don't care if other people are, as long as they're not trying to get anything from me.

    Eh, I don't even know who Chad Michael is. But if I were to pick my favorite male celebrity, then no, not even with him. I'm just not a casual sex kind of girl - no matter who the guy is. It would be tempting though.
     
    Tokio, Nov 3, 2007 IP
  8. SteveAR

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    #28
    what ever makes you happy as long as its not illegal lol
     
    SteveAR, Nov 3, 2007 IP
  9. Isaac

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    #29
    As a Christian, I believe sex outside of marriage is wrong. "Casual sex" and "one night stands" are immoral, and a sin.
     
    Isaac, Nov 3, 2007 IP
  10. Mogarth

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    #30
    I prefer only to have sex if I know I would want to be with the person for a long time, otherwise I dont see a point to it. If i want pleasure I have my hand.
     
    Mogarth, Nov 3, 2007 IP