its not the amount of backlinks that determines the amount of traffic you receive. Its your keyword research that determines how much traffic you receive. If you've got 19k backlinks pointing back to your site on one search term which generates less than 500 searches per month, then you can't expect to receive more than 10 - 20 visitors per day. Keyword research is most important.
Yea thats the software I use and paid $450 it works and has generated a very good living for me over the last year as I used it but now i found a guy who sells it for $100 which really sucked for me. O well live and learn
TarponKeith about the backlinks it would definitely help if you gave us the url but in general I don't think it would heart you (unless you have actually being sandboxed which means your site not showing up in any google results) I don't agree with warman2442 saying link exchanges are harmful, I have had lots of successes with those nor that signature links are not for traffic ... but you have to consider that 2 links from different sites with different anchor texts are probably more powerful then a total of 3700 signature links with the same exact anchor. Could it be that google has not actually seen all those links ?? and that is an irrelevant post, replying to another irrelevant post please refrain from that and stick to the subject of the thread ...
May be you rushed too much. Too many backlinks in short time sounds smelly to me, forget about Google. They live doing this. I would say give it a break, and to yourself not thinking of it. Things will get back on track over time.