Adult sites seem hard to monetize and I have a pretty big adult site. I need to know which is the best and highest earning adult affiliate program out there? Whether it would be text ads like adsense or banner ads, I'm wondering which one would be best? I am with blacklabelads but really don't understand it.
The one that is more likely to convert will be products your visitors are likely to enjoy. Given the content of the site, I would look for affiliate networks that offer adult content
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