all religions don't allow to have sex before marriage. That doesn't mean you can't lose it before. In the old days people got married early so it was a lot easier not to have sex before marriage. But now a lot of people are getting married very late in their 30s and 40s, so it doesn't make sense not to have sex until you're married. Plus I think sex is not a big deal, if you enjoy it you should do it. But just wear protection you don't want to get STD's.
then you must not be very familiar with DP's demographics most of them are male, young, and online @ DP or another forum you do the math
I'm too tired and hung-over to think about sex. That's the way I like it. Life is good. I'm going to give the demographics some advice. You will either go blind or end up like this guy sitting in the back of an adult cinema.
I dont think you understand what I am saying. I am not saying why someone is still a virgin. I am stating the mentality of a Virgin to that of a Non Virgin. They are vastly different. Whether they have found the right person or not. The virgin (the persona) is DIFFERENT from a non virgin. Your Point>> They make that choice to remain that way until they meet the right person. Yes I agree. While others (the non virgins at say around 18 yrs) MAKE that choice to lose it by a certain age, for a particular birthday to a certain girl in the neighbourhood or at school, etc. Some may even have lost it by accident (rape). My Point>> Their mentality is different is from a non virgin.
Not entirely putting restrictions on one's life, because everyone has their own definition of living life. Such as the ongoing party goers that do drugs and get drunk every single night...Those type of people might consider "living" it, but come on that's just a little wasteful isn't it? But anyways, for those that are waiting for the "one" to sleep with, more power to you. Thinking back, I partially regretted my first time because it wasn't a girl I truly loved and even though I like this girl a lot, I knew in the back of my mind we weren't meant to be. It was all pure lust. THENNN, when I met I first true love, if I had to change things around I would chosen her to be my first. Just because of the fact we would of been more intimate and it would of been more special to her because she was a virgin at the time. But even then I tell myself not to regret anything in the past because it's what I wanted in the first place. I know it might seem like I'm switching my opinion around, but the main point I'm trying to foreclose is that you shouldn't live life based on someone else's belief but only based on your OWN beliefs. If you choose to be a virgin just for your own sake, then more power to you. And I say that with admiration. I see your point and where you're trying to take this, but I still disagree to a certain extent. And I know that when there's sex involved in a relationship, it only complicates things both for the bad and good. But just because a non-virgin starts dating a virgin doesn't mean their life will be more unpleasant. That's untrue because every single individual is different, and what determines their life to be unpleasant/pleasant is the couple themselves along with their chemistry with each other. I don't care what anyone says, virgin couple or not, every relationship is going to have its ups and downs.