Excellent thoughts .. i also think the same.. I am 18 and still virgin and will remain virgin unless i get married
I am 23 and virgin. Our religion does not allow to loose it before marriage. Therefore Inshallah I will remain virgin till marriage.
i'm gonna report everyone that's still a virgin on DP, admins please add the rule in as one of the forum rules, kthxbye
I guess someone is a bit jealous and very angry is it? Do not hate Virgins. They are very Strong People and Ought to be Commended and Respected in Society. It is because of the Virgins you see here that has kept a great deal of balance on this Earth or else more than 85% of the Individuals in this World would have been destroyed by AIDS today. Ok? So please stop behaving like a child. You sound Quite Silly saying that. Don't you think? "i'm gonna report everyone that's still a virgin..blah blah blah..... By the way, if I ever get a son-in-law or daughter-in-law who was a virgin, I would do anything in the world to make sure that married life with my children is always happy. I would not hesitate to give them land, money or anything for that matter. Children who keep this type of Discipline before marriage bring Good Luck Prosperity and Happiness into the Families which they marry into and not Promiscuity, cheating, lies and trails of EXs. I am sure many women also think the same. That does not mean that non-virgins are sinful. Non-virgins could not keep it up for various reasons. If he lost it by mistake(rape) or because of Society, he is not punished in the eyes of God. God does have a level of Understanding too. A non-virgin should marry a non-virgin. Case closed! Perfect match.
I have yet to ever ask a chick out on a date. Just live in a cave where no one will see you. aka, be a hermit!!! Now, back in high school....da chicks were asking me out to da dances!!!! grrrr!!!!!!!!!
You sound pretty ignorant yourself. A non-virgin should marry a non-virgin? That's like saying a white person should only marry a white person, and no one else out of their race. Life shouldn't have to be lived by harsh strict rules, life is meant to be LIVED. And when I say lived, I don't mean someone should go out and sleep with 10 people every night. Just enjoy it the way it is. It's annoying hearing some of these people trying to act so higher up by saying, "You're going to hell if you do this, this, and this!" Blah blah blah. Living a life based on what someone else believes is not the way to live. BORING. Just enjoy it while you're still alive and kicking, because life is short as hell. I'm only 21, and I already know the fact that we humans only live for such a short amount of time. And the day I meet the "one" to marry, virgin or not, I'll take her as she is and love her to the fullest.
you've got a good point there. i agree with you. But at the same time look at it this way. "Life shouldn't have to be lived by harsh strict rules, life is meant to be LIVED. And when I say lived, I don't mean someone should go out and sleep with 10 people every night." What if that's what someone wants? are you putting restrictions on what they consider "living there life". Me personally, i don't give a shit. if that's what someone wants to do, power to you, it's not my belief, and everyone's is different. I am 18, and was beginning to think i was the only kid over 16 still a virgin. Never felt the need to have sex before, thought came acrossed my mind but i would have rather waited for a girl i really loved. Now at 18, theres a few girls i know, that if i had the chance i would sleep with now. first time might be next weekend. I went from thinking it should be with be with the one girl you're with.. to a change in 2 years of being ok with having sex with a friend who wants the same. I think the reason for my change in heart is simply because i'm the only virgin i know of around here. Everyone here humps like rabbits. And as much as i want to only have sex with the one girl i love, I want to be able to know what i'm doing and please her seeing as she will most likely know what shes doing. btw, Props to the virgins staying strong
How can you still be a virgin? I recommend you to go out tonight and get yourself a prostitute so you can lose it. But anyway sex is overrated. I lost mine when I was 17.
It is not being ignorant. When you walk this life, you will meet situations and have experiences. A Virgin is One Million Percent Different from a Non virgin and it may take you a good few decades to realise that. A Virgin boy or girl is a very strong and disciplined person who at a very young age has come to the realisation that HE OR SHE has something and believes that Virginity is Most Important and Priortizes it even more so when he or she sees others banging away. A Virgin boy or girl THINKS differently from a non virgin. Why? Because they lack EXPERIENCE in relationships. This shapes their mentality or thinking in everything that they do. They are naive (not in a bad way) but carry with them UNSPOILT INNOCENCE. They are seldom Bold, outspoken, rude and abnoxious to others. They are very precautious about venturing into relationships. They do not venture into clubs often like nightbats and I could go on. On the other hand, Non virgins are bold and adventurous etc ( I can't write an Essay on this right now). But, I will tell you this. If a non virgin marries a virgin there will be a few unpleasantries on the virgin part, simply because of their innocence. Again, you may not Fully understand the meaning of this. It's not like saying a white man should marry a white woman. That's not the same. We all know that skin color does not make a person but their soul.
I can't believe how many DP users are virgins. Mine went with the age at 15 and now I am 18. Life is much better since its been gone cause the girls like a I guy with experience