Well now a days you don't really have to look after HER, because she could be independent and earning more than you are earning.... so it really helps to move on.
I think i'll be happy after marriage more than im right now. Because someone will be so close to u every time which u don't have to hide from parents or any one like girlfriend
I am somewhere in the middle. I have been married for 12 years. We have had ups and downs. Now that I'm asserting my independence we are getting along much,much better. You have to look at it as being equal, not one better than the other. Part of the "taking care of her" syndrome I believe comes from the stay-at-home mom thing. If the mom doesn't treat staying at home like a job and that it's important (IMO-from experience) then the man can begin to feel as if he needs to take care of her instead of treating her like an equal. Just my thoughts on the subject.
i am shocked to see such topic on a webmasters forum anyhow changes are good as well as bad if you want freedom its bad if you want love its good
I can`t understand how someone can be happy after getting married. We all get use to everything in this life and at some moment it would probably getting boring.