Any Advice?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Finale, Oct 22, 2006.

  1. #1
    Well, from a fellow member...

    Do you think it's a good idea to go after someone that has already been taken?

    Like what I mean is, if she is already involved in a relationship...would you go after her?

    Hmm...this may sound really 'cheesy'...but for the last 6-7 weeks, she's all thats been on my mind.

    And it's not like one of those 'crushes', I actually talk to her every single day. But it's just that she's like...'involved'....


    Ahh, I'm sorry if this sounds stupid, I apologize if it does.
     
    Finale, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  2. swordude

    swordude Well-Known Member

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    No, not really. Unless the guy is like cheating or doing bad stuff, I would wait and if you're meant to be it'll happen.
     
    swordude, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  3. Finale

    Finale Peon

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    #3
    Well, yeah.

    That's what I thought too, just sit back and let it happen...

    //edit

    Thing is....the guy dating her...I've known him for 4 years...

    And he's really not that nice to people, he's pretty much arrogant to others.
     
    Finale, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  4. Crazy_Rob

    Crazy_Rob I seen't it!

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    #4
    The answer is no.
     
    Crazy_Rob, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  5. swordude

    swordude Well-Known Member

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    Yeah I had "No." but I thought I would give you a reason. A lot of people will get pissed at you if you do something like this, because he will tell people and it's no fun. Trust me.
     
    swordude, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  6. Finale

    Finale Peon

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    It's not like I would 'force' someone to do something.

    And the 'meant' to be part.

    I really don't believe in something like that. Just sit there and it'll happen? How will that happen?

    Destiny doesn't really get credit for that...

    So should I just wait until she becomes single? I think that's the best idea...
     
    Finale, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  7. swordude

    swordude Well-Known Member

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    Yeah thats what I meant, it'll happen meaning they will break up if it's meant to happen.
     
    swordude, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  8. The Critic

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    Don't force it. If and when she decides to go with someone else, just make sure you're there.
     
    The Critic, Oct 22, 2006 IP
  9. jameskon

    jameskon Well-Known Member

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    #9

    if you feel you can do it.. it's OK...

    keep up buddy...as we all know "Every thing is fair in LOVE & WAR"
     
    jameskon, Oct 23, 2006 IP
  10. swordude

    swordude Well-Known Member

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    Actually if you decide to wait heres a tip, she might be sad so you can try and comfort her but don't try and get her right away.
     
    swordude, Oct 23, 2006 IP
  11. webchoice

    webchoice Peon

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    swordude, i agree with you.
    just to add on, i think Finale may need to stand by her building up the friendship becoming good friends or even best of friends. Making her to be more open and is willing to share with Finale.
     
    webchoice, Oct 24, 2006 IP