All the girls is the same ...

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by wissam, Jul 30, 2006.

  1. #1
    If you remeber the topic about the girl that I loved via internert then she gone, I made sure that she is just playing with my heart and I decided to go for the real thing as you all told me to do.... here you are the complte story :
    I came to Morocco to see my brother and have a nice trip ... I found a lot of beauteful girls here ....we was traveling from Casa Blanka city to Al jadeda City, before the bus moves there was an emty seat by my side, I wished that god send a beauteful girl to set on it ....the weard thing that a girl came there and asked me if the seat is empty, I said yea ... sit down ...
    on the way we talked for 3 hours, she told me about her nd such things, she is 19 and half years old just like me, I told her that she is beauteful and I liked her ... and I told her that if I was living in Morocco I wish to have a girl friend like her ...she told me that she like me very much and that I am cute and smart ... I gave her my number here and my number on my country, she was happy and told me that she will call me when she get home ......
    she simply didn't ... not today also ......
    one more thing .... why she didn't say bye when we reached al jadida ....
    she just gone I was holding my bags when I looked she wasn't there ....
    I am afraid that I can't stop thinking of here ....and I'm still waiting for her call .....
    there is to thing :
    she lost my number or she lied to me ...any way I know that I will be sad for a long time ....
    and the problem is that I can't find a better girl around ...
    well ... I started to think that I am ugly or something .. may you see my pics and tell me ....
    http://myspace.com/wissamrox
    .......
    god bliss you ...
    ~Wissam
     
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  2. wissam

    wissam Well-Known Member

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    #2
    Sorry, a correction for the topic title Is=Are
     
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    gemini181 Well-Known Member

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    #3
    You are still young enough to enjoy your freedom. Love can be great, but so can independance. Stay happy and you will be fine.

    BTW, all girls are not the same.

    ps. I might try that 'bus prayer' (nice idea), but I don't ride on buses very often. :)
     
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  4. wissam

    wissam Well-Known Member

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    Thank you but if I don't enjoy my life in this age like other boys do, things later may get just normal and with no taste at all ....
     
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    #5
    well, watever happens, happens for good, think that and move ahead, you shall find some one better,
    wait for right time ull find some one, one more thing beauty is not just looks, a persons love for you truely is more important

    find some one who truely loves you from her heart, sorry if i hurt you in any way but this is my feeling, i been into similar issue, but have to live with it thts wat life is :)
     
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    wissam Well-Known Member

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    don't worry, I always love advices that you people on DP tells me, when I read your posts It gives me hope and hapeness ...even for a while ....
     
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    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #7
    Seriously, it's not the end of the world. You're still young, you need to enjoy life while you have the chance. Supposedly, everyone has a person out there that's right for them. You'll find yours too, but rather than actually going around looking for the perfect girl, let her come to you. Stop being so depressed, cheer up buddy. Things will work out.
     
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    wissam Well-Known Member

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    I hope so .....
    I'm tired of sadness ...am afraid to go crazy like hamlet if I think too much ...
     
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    focus on your work rather then thinking about women,
    be successfull and girls will run after you ;)
     
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    wissam Well-Known Member

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    Another good advice ... thanx thanx ....
     
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    ...sounds like al qaida ... maybe that's the reason? :rolleyes:
    Just kidding:p

    From your lines I read that you want to much to fast. Girls don't like that. They feel to much pressure on them.
    The more you behave independend the better your chances are.

    Tip:
    Don't make it as your main agenda. (most)Girls like guys who are cool.:cool:
    Control your body language. 80% of our communicaton is told by body language. Females are more sensitive to this than males and they find out quickley about the real interests you may have. Your body, especially your eyes gonna tell that.
     
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    wissam Well-Known Member

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    Cooool .....thanx for the tips guys, now I know how much geek and dump about love I was before I read your tips ....
    Denise too PM'ed me a nice tip that I will never forget ....
     
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  13. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    Glad I could help :)
     
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    #14
    Are you sure that girl was not just flirting with you? Its not about being hot... Its about being confident. You see a lot of strange looking guys with hot GFs. Its because they are fun to be with.

    Also next time you meet a girl that you like take it easy... Dont expect her to fall in love with you after a few hours. Giver her time/space... When you get her number dont even think about calling her in the first few days. Be confident, have some self respect and make her think that you can have any girl you want any time anyway but dont make it sound like you are a player...

    Practice, practice and more practice :D
     
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    You're not ugly - don't start thinking that just because she didn't call.

    Also you shouldn't get too depressed about this one girl. Sure you got along with her well but you did all you could and personally I think you did well. :) You seem to have the right mentality when it comes to girls so if you keep trying you are bound to find someone in the future.

    CHEER UP! :D:D:D
     
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  16. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #16
    That's funny, Mightyb, because that's exactly what we girls do to you men :) (play hard to get, that is.)
     
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    mightyb Banned

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    And we know it so we give you a false sense of security :p

    Things could have been so much easier though... :D
     
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    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #18
    Relationships between men and women are NEVER going to be easy, I'm afraid!
     
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    True that... I must admit this even makes it more interesting.
     
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    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #20
    I suppose you are correct, in a sense. If relationships were strictly cookie-cutter fairy tales, where's the excitement in that?
     
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