Just wondering why this would be tried it with 2 seperate sites could this be that I used an auto blog commenting software and now my Ip is banned and will have to use a proxy?
I had it happen to and depending on what email you used it could be banned. I had a generic email I was using for all automated submissions and it got banned
You can use a software that can scramble your ip, but I really did not remember where I got last month.
Which software you are using? A blog commenting software cannot harm because it only gives you the list of related dofollow blogs and then you have comment on them manually. You may be talking about Blog Comment Submitter which submits comment on lots of blogs simultaneously,which is a spam.
Well if you were submitting things that were marked as spam to many blogs then you might be banned by Akismet, in which case you are screwed since they never really respond to emails.