Alright Is it ok to say something like: "Visit my site, and feel free to click any ads". Has anyone gotten away with breaking this rule?
No it is not the right way. IF google find out this means your adsense account was banned. If you get more traffic means definitely you will get more traffic. Try to concentrate on how to generate more traffic.
Of course I won't try this... But it's interesting to know anyway. My personal rule of thumb is every rule exists because it's been broken. So someone must have done this.