For those that have people demanding that you remove their site, did you attempt to explain to them the benefit and that they would never be charged?
I did. Didn't matter because she took offense at other listings. In my case it was a pet pig rescue organization and she objected to being listed on the same site that included listings on places to get a pet pig. Didn't matter to her that I made it clear on my site that pet pigs required extra care and that people should check out her site and others like it before even considering taking on such a large responsibility. I think in the end I left her listing. As long as I don't include a picture or screenshot, there's absolutely nothing she can do or say about it. Guess you could say that I'm trying to help her cause despite her over idealistic view on the subject.
Sounds like she had a case of tunnel vision, peoples passion for something can sometimes make them act irrationally.
Its not called the iPad 3, at least not here in the UK or US too i think, not only are you taking a massive risk with your adsense account there but the tiny bit of info on that page is way off, the new ipad is already being ordered in the UK for delivery within a couple of weeks, your site is an insult to the paying advertisers and publishers that provide real content.
Want to promote Porn site for free .... wow, no one will add your site because for this type of site all one will either charge you to add in his directory or they will ignore your request to avoid any issue in future due to porn site link.