I believe google has some mechanism which compares the ip from where we log into the adsense accounts and the clicks. The clicks never have counted for me. I use to click on the ads from my site if it is of interest and I never see the clicks counted on the reports. Even if it shows some clicks there will not be any earnings from the click..
Um, just use good ol fashion self-control. I have clicked on my own ads by accident while updating exactly twice in all the time I've been with Adsense, and I'm reasonably sure I have more sites than you do, and work on them much more than you do. If you are unable to exert this mythical self-control, then for God's sake use the adblocker. Would you rather NOT live in total, all-consuming fear, or would you rather continue to hide in your corner for fear Adsense will ban you just so you can, in your own words, not "cut someone else's revenue upon a visit to their site". I find your inability to make this simple, logical decision mind-boggling, especially considering your confession, in this thread and others, that you live in constant terror of banishment.
OMG ... how many browsers do you have installed??? Me? I have 3: IE, FF and Opera ... Disable javascript in one of those browser and use it to browse your adsense site ONLY ... use other browsers with javascript enabled ... think ... think ... think ...