Hello, Am sure there are a lot of experts out there who could easly answer these questions , If you are one of them please do . 1-what is the best SW to monito spiders visit to my site ? 2-What is the best SW to creat site maps ? Thanks
1) Any type of log file analyzer will do this. Also, I believe there is a solution called Crawler Alert that may alert you by email, but I've never used it. 2) You. A sitemap should not take that long to create, and you'll want to carefully choose which words you use in the anchor text for each link.
For the answer to number 2. I agree that you write the sitemap yourself. However, if you have many pages and want an easy way to find them all, xenu's link sleuth does a good job of finding all the pages of your site and helping you easily create a sitemap (among other things) Check it out here