I am totally agree with @Icecold153.. and otherthing is that. check your website content if it is copy contant then its creates problme for indexing and as well as also affected on ranking.. Submit your websites on Digg and other major social bookmarking websites..
Your site must have original content for the fast indexing your site. Create a site map and submit it on google webmaster tool. Make some quality back link it should be through some high pr site that's help you to index your site faster.
you should going to pry first man after that checking all the part 1. onpage 2. offpage if everything ok, you must be check at sandbox
I'll go with asanka000 .I think Either you have a bad neighbourhood or your ip was banned before. possibly some one have used it for spamming purposes. I feel at this point either you have to change the ip or submit for reconsideration. Here is the process for you. http://www.google.com/support/webmasters/bin/answer.py?hl=en&answer=35843 Please update us if it has worked for you.
Hi frnd I have checked your site.I know it ll be really hard to have a site that is not yet indexed in google even after three months.Follow these guideline I ll guarantee you your site will me on google in less than 24 hours. Create plain html version of your website without any images,hard codings,etc,etc.Use only css and html. Create a copy of your website as i said.Replace it for few hours.Submit it to google.Google will surely crawl it.Then replace the orignal version.The idea is to get all ur urls get crawled.