It is really a bad site man, sorry, but it sucks, what, did you actually set it up in 5 minutes or what?! Make it more professional.
You must change the template ande de banner. You can add a chat or more things, for example a calendar to look much worked
You know, aside from the NSFW or adult content warning, the theme isn't all that great at all and could really use a lot of help. thanks for the heads up, gary. rep added.