What should be the age of a boy and a girl when they get married ?

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  1. #1
    hi friends,

    i just want to the suggestions about all the people here

    what would u suggest from your point of view
    what should be the age of a boy and a girl when they get ready for marraige


    lets start from me


    boy - 24
    girl - 21
     
    nickypunjabi, Jul 30, 2008 IP
  2. vipmsm

    vipmsm Active Member

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    I see no specific time, only once they are ready to hold this responsibility
     
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  3. scubita

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    #3
    Here's my thought's:

    Girl 35
    Boy 30

    Girls are always more mature and boys really need someone mature by their side :D
     
    scubita, Jul 30, 2008 IP
  4. ajohn03d

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    When they feel at a responcible age and love each other. :)
     
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  5. Freewebspace

    Freewebspace Notable Member

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    #5
    you are seeing the maturity by age ...

    If both boy and girl are matured in the thoughts and mind they can marry any time...
     
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    Hmmm... I'm a men and I'm married almost 2y ago when I was 22...
    I was ready for that big step ;-)
     
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    Lurznm Banned

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    #7
    Boy:26
    Girl:24
     
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  8. Abhik

    Abhik ..:: The ONE ::..

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    #8
    hmm..

    Girl 18
    Boy 21
     
    Abhik, Jul 30, 2008 IP
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    #9
    Yes, I agree, Boys:21 and Girls:18, that's legal ages in getting married...
     
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  10. Nora

    Nora Well-Known Member

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    Both when they're over 40. It annoys me how people throw away their lives at a young age to start a family, only to end up alone, broke and divorced a few years later.
     
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    #11
    Boys and Girls should not get married!!!




    Only, men and women should...
     
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  12. JorgeVL

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    #12
    Is there an ideal age for that? I do not think so.
     
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    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #13
    Male 16, Female 16 - that's the legal ages here in the UK.

    Legalities aside I think when they're financially secure enough to enter into the commitment.
     
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    #14
    In my opinion, age doesn't matter (after 18 of course) as long as they are both responsible enough and love each other. And by that I mean really love each other, not just physical attachment.
     
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    #15
    Old enough to realize the responsibilities of marriage.

    If everyone married when they were forty and up, they probably wouldn't end up having kids, or if they did they would be in their fifties when they're kids are still really young.
     
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  16. PHPGator

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    #16
    Agreed, no specific time or age. Depends on their life, where they are headed, and how responsible they are. I think it is wise to wait until after you get out of college to get married, but this isn't always the case.
     
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  17. carol.prime

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    #17
    great point! there's no ideal age in getting married it's when they are ready to be an ideal couple.
     
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  18. priyakochin

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    #18
    It depends on country and culture.
    In our area girls get married by 20 to 23
    and boys by 25 to 27

    and I too support this.
     
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    #19
    I think both should be at least 25+ before they get married. 99% of my boyfriend's friends got married at about 20-21 and are all divorced now. Pretty sad to be divorced before the age of 23. Almost all the people I know that waited until 25+ are still together and doing very well.

    Age does not always mean maturity, but most people are financially secure, out of college, and ready for the responsibility of marriage at that age....
     
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    #20
    boy -22
    girl -19
     
    luhasr, Jul 30, 2008 IP