Just received the dreaded news...

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Ponynugget, Jul 24, 2008.

  1. #1
    ... my girlfriend broke up with me. :(

    It hit me harder than I ever would've thought, but after some consolidation from my best mate I'm feeling a little better. Good thing is that she only did it because she wanted to focus on her schooling more, and with only 10 weeks left it's much more important to see her get the career she wants.

    It's going to be really weird and different without her but I guess I'll just have to push on.

    Anyway, thanks for listening to my little sob story. I didn't want to post a topic about it but it seems like the hip thing to do around these parts. :p
     
    Ponynugget, Jul 24, 2008 IP
  2. Kerosene

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    #2
    Just keep telling yourself that and it will all be OK. :p

    Been there, done that.

    Cut the cord asap, and get yourself a new skweeze - all the hot chicks from Melbourne keep moving to Sydney, so you shouldn't have to look far :)
     
    Kerosene, Jul 24, 2008 IP
  3. shamus

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    #3
    Indeed my friend - we've ALL been there at some point, and in a matter of time she'll just be another part of your past - guaranteed.

    As you get older, you'll be able to look back at the memories you made with her, while you're pumping your hot young wife :)
     
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    #4
    you two could easily have coped well with the situation if you two talked to each other

    good to see that she wants to concentrate on her studies...why can't you two just talk a little on phone for next few weeks till she is free of studies??

    I did this with my gf and we are going good these days
     
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  5. BobHappy

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    That is too bad. I hope that it all ends up being better. There are plenty of other girls out there.
     
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    #6
    first, i'm sorry that your gf broke up with you, been there before as well. But i just don't buy this "i should concentrate on school more" excuse. Don't tell me she's going to spend 24/7 nonstop and study. i don't see why a university study can be so busy she cannot spend, say an hour or two a week with her bf. But then again, i don't know her and once a girl makes up her mind, there's nothing to you can do, again been there, done that.

    your wound will heal over time and there are plenty of fish in the ocean my friend
     
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    #7
    Love is just chatter. Keep smiling.
     
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  8. nofullstop

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    #8
    what does that mean??
     
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    #9
    that's a sad story though that's not the first time i'm hearing this. It happens all the time so just be a man and don't try anything stupid. the good thing is that now you know she is gone. some of them just smile but stab you in the dark. :D
     
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    :(

    I don't even have a girlfriend. Nor will I ever.
     
    Phultu, Jul 24, 2008 IP
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    #11
    I know the pain ... When someone's to whom you love from deep heart.. leave you...
    Its too painfull....
    Life is like...just formality.....
    Control yourself... and throw everything on the hand of god...
    and c... what is in your luck....

    Good Luck... :)
     
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    #12
    You have me intrigued.

    You're either a gay male, a straight female, a (genuinelly) celibate priest, or a complete loser.

    :p
     
    Kerosene, Jul 24, 2008 IP
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    #13
    Or perhaps somehow all of the above? My guess is the first.
     
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  14. Phultu

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    #14
    No, I am straight, and love a girl. But, I won't ever get a girl, ever.
     
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    #15
    Your avatar is breaking my heart.
     
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    #16

    lolz... Nice quote....
    Thats different you wont get a girl...
    But you love some girl naa.. So ask frankly...
     
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  17. ThisIsOli

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    #17
    Ahh so he's a loser

    dont worry about the girl man, just remember without the bad times the good times wouldn't be so sweet!
     
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    #18
    Sorry to hear that, You can still wait for her though.
     
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    Yes, I pretty much am a loser. And having social anxiety doesn't help either, tried to kill myself at times.. but going off-topic this...
     
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    #20
    schooling ?
    You are just in a school.
     
    motherknucker, Jul 24, 2008 IP