I know that even Freud said once how he studied human psychology for his whole life but one thing he never managed to understand was female psyche. So... once and for all... What do women want in a man? My take on it is that they THEMSELVES don't know what they want... I think there is a big difference between what they want and to what they respond. We all know how a lot women respond for bad boys.. The misunderstood individuals who are hard as rock and do what ever they want and don't care about what others thing of it... But then we have women who respond to nice "provider" type of guys... What's the deal??
Okay guys please elaborate on your thoughts so that we'll be able to discuss I don't know how many types of women are there.. But I know there is one type of men. The ones who put a lot of value on how woman looks. And yes, this is a generalization, but it's also true on many levels. It's been proven through a lot of research that men put more importance on how woman looks then how much importance do women put on how we look. So, again, yes these are generalizations, but then again what would be the point of discussion if we tried to dissect every single person...
If you haven't seen this one yet it might be a fun read: From craigslist personals: > What am I doing wrong? > > Okay, I'm tired of beating around the bush. I'm a beautiful > (spectacularly beautiful) 25 year old girl. I'm articulate and > classy. > I'm not from New York. I'm looking to get married to a guy who makes > at least half a million a year. I know how that sounds, but keep in > mind that a million a year is middle class in New York City, so I > don't think I'm overreaching at all. > > Are there any guys who make 500K or more on this board? Any wives? > Could you send me some tips? I dated a business man who makes average > around 200 - 250. But that's where I seem to hit a roadblock. 250,000 > won't get me to central park west. I know a woman in my yoga class > who was married to an investment banker and lives in Tribeca, and > she's not as pretty as I am, nor is she a great genius. So what is she > doing right? How do I get to her level? > > Here are my questions specifically: > > - Where do you single rich men hang out? Give me > specifics- bars, > restaurants, gyms > > -What are you looking for in a mate? Be honest guys, you won't hurt > my feelings > > -Is there an age range I should be targeting (I'm 25)? > > - Why are some of the women living lavish lifestyles on the upper > east side so plain? I've seen really 'plain jane' > boring types who have > nothing to offer married to incredibly wealthy guys. I've seen drop > dead gorgeous girls in singles bars in the east village. What's the > story there? > > - Jobs I should look out for? Everyone knows - lawyer, investment > banker, doctor. How much do those guys really make? And where do they > hang out? Where do the hedge fund guys hang out? > > - How you decide marriage vs. just a girlfriend? > I am looking for > MARRIAGE ONLY > > Please hold your insults - I'm putting myself out there in an honest > way. Most beautiful women are superficial; at least I'm being up > front about it. I wouldn't be searching for these kind of guys if I > wasn't able to match them - in looks, culture, sophistication, and > keeping a nice home and hearth. > > it's NOT ok to contact this poster with services or other commercial > interests > PostingID: 432279810 > THE ANSWER > Dear Pers-432279810: > > I read your posting with great interest and have thought meaningfully > about your dilemma. I offer the following analysis of your > predicament. > Firstly, I'm not wasting your time, I qualify as a guy who fits your > bill; that is I make more than $500K per year. > That said here's how I see it. > > Your offer, from the prospective of a guy like me, is plain and > simple a crappy business deal. Here's why. Cutting through all the > B.S., what you suggest is a simple trade: you bring your looks to the > party and I bring my money. Fine, simple. But here's the rub, your > looks will fade and my money will likely continue into perpetuity...in > fact, it is very likely that my income increases but it is an absolute > certainty that you won't be getting any more beautiful! > > So, in economic terms you are a depreciating asset and I am an > earning asset. Not only are you a depreciating asset, your > depreciation accelerates! Let me explain, you're 25 now and will > likely stay pretty hot for the next 5 years, but less so each year. > Then the fade begins in earnest. By 35 stick a fork in you! > > So in Wall Street terms, we would call you a trading position, not a > buy and hold...hence the rub...marriage. It doesn't make good > business sense to "buy you" (which is what you're asking) so I'd > rather lease. In case you think I'm being cruel, I would say the > following. If my money were to go away, so would you, so when your > beauty fades I need an out. It's as simple as that. So a deal that > makes sense is dating, not marriage. > > Separately, I was taught early in my career about efficient markets. > So, I wonder why a girl as "articulate, classy and spectacularly > beautiful" as you has been unable to find your sugar daddy. > I find it hard to believe that if you are as gorgeous as you say you > are that the $500K hasn't found you, if not only for a tryout. > > By the way, you could always find a way to make your own money and > then we wouldn't need to have this difficult conversation. > > With all that said, I must say you're going about it the right way. > Classic "pump and dump." > I hope this is helpful, and if you want to enter into some sort of > lease, let me know."
Quit trying to figure them out and just enjoy them. If you find a woman who just wants you to support her and give her money, use her for all your worth and throw her away. But on the other hand, if you find a woman that loves you and doesnt care if you're rich or poor, then you've found a real treasure.
Stimulate a womens mind first then they are yours for the taking. If you can hold a decent conversation, are funny and have self confidence then most of the job is done. Guys think physical the worry about the mental stimulation later. Well many women are the opposite, make them feel special and the job is done. I dont think its a matter of "let's crack the WOMAN CODE! " rather, common sense and effort is the answer.