Divorce

Should a man divorce his "same-aged" wife and "drop" two kids , on the grounds that he wants younger, more pretty wife and just isn't happy ??

thanks

p.s. not me

 

If this persons not happy they are not happy.. Faking it would cause more problems in the long run.

 

yes, simple, but truth, how about if the other person is unhappy and heartbroken ??

should "xHusband" ignore the feelings of his "xWife"

 

Be hard to ignore xWifes feelings.. Marriage is a big thing and would entail a strong bond.. unless the marriage was not a happy one for a long time.

 

thanks tool. so which one is the least damaging thing ? material loss or a psychological confusion

 

Material loss is less damaging in my opinion. Psychological confusion can last a life time where as material things can be easily replaced.

 

now confused- i meant "material loss" as a"divorce expenses"

"Psychological confusion"- as "husbands" unhappiness and cry for a better life


thats friend of mine going trough this, wants "have at all", but they wont let him- so - confused..

 

The man married her for a reason, I have no doubt that it could be worked out and love could be found again. They both just have to put in the time and effort.

 

marriage is one thing, human sex drive is other, he does not like her sexually, ash she has grown old and "her bum's too big"- by his own words

and she wont let him having gorlfriends, making scandals and so on..

 

For Gods sake she gave him 2 kids of course, she is not going to look and feel the way she did before then., or as you said she has grown old and "her bum's too big".

A women having kids puts a lot of strain and stress on her body Aimee gave birth to 4 wonderful children and I would still love her no matter what ,
Your friend needs to stop thinking with the wrong head and take care of his family.

 

well, yea, i understand that, he should love her , which I'm sure he does, but how about sex life?

she wont let him having girlfriends, always investigating, making huge public scandals, embarrassing him, does not look good for the public appearances and so on

 

if i was unhappy, i would not stay due to the kids.

 

Hogan left his wife and kids... and he's the Real American Hero, so yes.

 

Sounds like she is going to be better off with out him not the other way round....

IMO - your friend wants his cake and to eat it too, what if it was on the other foot what if his wife was unhappy with his balding head lack of sexual appearance and performance and wanted to have multiple boyfriends out side of the family home? I doubt that would be acceptable by him ..

It's sad to see that the kids are now having to have to go through mental abuse because the father is an ignoramus!