Do you think ladies prefer tall harsh guys to short but caring guys? You can also express the kind of guys you think that ladies would prefer(Ladies man)
Take it from me, don't be too nice to women. If you come over as too caring they take you for an idiot, women respect strong and confident men.
I agree with Trevor, men are like tile, lay them right the first time and walk all over them the rest of their lives.
Hmm... I dated tall guys and short guys, jerks and really nice guys. My husband is tall and can be a jerk, though not to me!