Do you cry like a man?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by wilfordsy, Jun 1, 2008.

  1. #1
    I'm a guy. Not too tough and not too emotional. Just have the right emotional quotient to get through problems in life while still enjoying it.

    But whenever I do have problems, I like to cry to let it all out. Most of the time, with my girlfriend or with a family member. I cry it all out to them which makes me feel a lot better.

    Anyway, I really don't find it embarrassing because for me, it's a natural thing to cry. It's actually pretty healthy! :)

    But back to my point. Do other guys feel this way too? Or do you guys feel that crying is for sissies? ;)
     
    wilfordsy, Jun 1, 2008 IP
  2. brownkiwi

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    #2
    I know what you are talking about. I wont do it in front of anybody but there are a few people that I will.
     
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    I can't remember the last time when I cried...
     
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    Crying is good. One of the reason males die earlier than women is because males doesn't want to cry, trapping the pressure inside their hearts which will lead to trauma :D
     
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    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    #5
    Right from the start I am taught that a man don't cry, a man can shed blood but not tears, so I still find it hard to reconcile the fact that man can cry :)
     
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    #6
    If man laughs then he should cry too. Both make us feel better ;)
     
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    #7
    Maybe it’s OK, but I never cry. I got my method to handle stress situations.
     
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    #8
    I cry sometimes, but not like all the time...
     
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    Only when I am so much frustrated..
     
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    #10
    Crying is a human emotion, and therefore it doesn't matter if you are male or female, everyone cries. I am not afraid to admit that I do cry when I am under extreme emotional distress, whether it be from death of a family pet or a family member or losing someone close to me.
     
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    I cry when I'm sad. I'm only human and crying is a human nature.
     
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    #12
    i am a man

    men >>> real men >>> donot cry

    real men search for solution
     
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    redz Well-Known Member

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    #13
    I didn't cry yet since I was a little kid. Guess I am tough , at least emotionally :D
     
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    #14
    Dude you sound like a girl.
     
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    #15
    same here - i can not remember, when i cried the last time. Must be a long time ago....

    Maybe, when i was a lil child or i really had problemes, or really bad things happened...
     
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    #16
    I don't cry. I kill.
     
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    #17
    Man built brick walls. That's what frustration is for.
     
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    #18
    I consider myself pretty manly. But I still think crying is an intricate part of this , being unafraid to cry is something that just solidifies it. I cried a few hours ago actually.
     
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    #19
    IMO everybody who gets emotional and feels like crying should cry. When such emotions rise, at the very same moment so many of toxins are formed inside our body and with the help of tears they get away..... Also tears help in clearing out so many germs... SO crying is good... :) But dont get carried away by this.... that you start crying everywhere... Look where you are comfortable :)
     
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    #20
    doesnt everyone cry????
    more like a baby?
     
    toxicknight, Jun 1, 2008 IP