Suggestion needed for first meeting (arrange marriage)

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  1. #1
    i will going to see a girl for marriage.

    what type of questions i ask in first meeting?

    Please help

    i never face this type of meeting.

    how can i impress to that girl in first meeting...
     
    i_am_dhaval, Feb 12, 2008 IP
  2. deluxdon

    deluxdon Catch Me If You Can...!!!™ Staff

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    First of all take her to any good restaurent or hotel in your area and there ask her about what she likes and dislikes then some routine questions. At the end ask her that whether she likes you or not :p:rolleyes:

    DON.
     
    deluxdon, Feb 12, 2008 IP
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    iminphils Peon

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    Who arranged the marriage? And why do you want to comply?
     
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    getjimmy Prominent Member

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    Also ask her if she is ready for the marriage(not forced by parents) or may be if she loves some other guy...
     
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    DomainCo.US Well-Known Member

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    I thought arranged marriage are things of the past. Anyway, flowers almost always do the trick
     
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    deluxdon Catch Me If You Can...!!!™ Staff

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    #6
    Yeap thats very important question need to ask first :rolleyes: for smooth beginning of marriage life.

    DON.
     
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    I laughed when I saw the title.
     
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    touchAshley Active Member

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    #8
    you getting married and you don't know her? what country is that?
     
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    Blogmaster Blood Type Dating Affiliate Manager

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    LOL I want to say something really bad, but better not :D
     
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  10. i_am_dhaval

    i_am_dhaval Well-Known Member

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    #10
    the girl is computer engi.

    i am under graduate(pass only 2 years of college)

    but i am very talented and i am working as testing eng. in s/w comny.

    only my minus point is under gretuaete but i am very telented also my famaily background is very good.

    how can i convince that girl or what type of question i ask for impress her.

    how can i stat or u can say what is my my first 10 starting que.

    i am very positive person.

    thanks in advance.
     
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  11. deluxdon

    deluxdon Catch Me If You Can...!!!™ Staff

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    It happens only in INDIA :D

    BTW he is getting married thats why need some suggestions for first meeting from others ;)

    DON.
     
    deluxdon, Feb 12, 2008 IP
  12. i_am_dhaval

    i_am_dhaval Well-Known Member

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    #12
    need first 10 questions to start meeting...
     
    i_am_dhaval, Feb 12, 2008 IP
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    I guess you should start by asking what her favorites are, like food movies etc.,
     
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    #14
    Start askin with her likes and dislikes, then move on to some of ur past experiences and ask some of her. first build the frenship, gain confidence and then ask whther she is ready for this marriage or not. thats it!!! best of luck!!!
     
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    #15
    My mind cant understant this aranged marriages ....
     
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    #16
    As some one above said, you may not b able to take her out at some restaurant !!
    Ask her, wat she likes, dislikes. Try to find out if she likes you or ask her directly.
    Dont ask about past relationships. Say her to take her own decision and not to be forced by parents.

    And specially, Dont try to impress her, it will make bad impression of you.
    Present your self with wat u r normally.
     
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    28081981 Well-Known Member

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    Also, in case u smoke or drink, make that clear so that u dont have issues afterwards.

    Should u feel, u can also add ur DP reputation reads that you have a lil shameless behavior @ past track record, n confirm that its fine with her :D
     
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    #18
    I Love U, U Love me 2 ?

    LOLX
     
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    n if u r unfortunate she will say yes :p
     
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  20. getjimmy

    getjimmy Prominent Member

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    #20
    Come on,Dhaval is getting married,do not ask him such questions.May be u should ask this question to my friend deluxdon.:p
     
    getjimmy, Feb 13, 2008 IP
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