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Trusting a member?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by ::Mike::, Oct 31, 2007.

  1. Shazz

    Shazz Prominent Member

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    #21
    It dosen't matter how many posts they have, you can't trust anyone lol
     
    Shazz, Nov 4, 2007 IP
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    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #22
    Yet another lie, huh?
     
    CountryBoy, Nov 4, 2007 IP
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    gr8liverpoolfan Notable Member

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    #23
    Do a search on Google for that person. A Whois on one of his domains may also help. His previous posts should also give you a good idea about whether or not he really wants to do business.
     
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  4. sundaybrew

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    #24
    Oh yea - You love me too , I forgot,

    I even showed some love back, Have a look at my custom user title :)

    BTW - countryboy - I missed you {kisses}
     
    sundaybrew, Nov 4, 2007 IP
  5. CountryBoy

    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #25
    And another one. Jeez, do you know what the truth actually is? :rolleyes:
     
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  6. Jerlene.net

    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    #26
    So I see someone came back. DP is just so damned irresistible.:rolleyes:

    It's getting slow but this is nothing to bother with.

    Two posts out of 120 posts is about you. You're right, 90%.
     
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  7. Zerosleep

    Zerosleep Established User

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    #27
    lol I thought Joe u left DP forever (ofcourse u told me u'll rejoin in Jan 08) but what happened ? came back so early ?
     
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  8. sarahk

    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    #28
    Read their posts and see how they conduct themselves. It'll give you a good idea of their character.

    Are their itraders for decent sales... or link exchanges?
    Google them and see if they get bad press elsewhere.

    Consider using escrow for large deals... and what is large to you may be small to someone else, or the other way around.

    And then it's up to you to determine what is an acceptable risk.
     
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    #29
    Im still waiting for work from him, looks like I will have to write it off.
     
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    #30
    No you won't . Just email me please and we will work this out.

    I will be more then happy to arrange something to make you whole.

    Thanks
     
    sundaybrew, Nov 4, 2007 IP
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    #31
    I have heard of members selling Itraders to each other. So who do we trust now?
     
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    Shazz Prominent Member

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    #32
    Rummers, could also be true. IMO iTraders don't mean much
     
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    Ajeet Well-Known Member

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    #33
    I hope that offers stands for me too. I am referring to my $270 order with 2 paypal disputes (both of which I won), unlimited reminders and emails to you since March 2007. This includes 4 emails in the past 3 weeks. Why not simply return the money?

    Oh! Welcome Back!
     
    Ajeet, Nov 7, 2007 IP
  14. Eli B

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    #34
    This doesn't mate sense at all.

    If you're the seller, then the buyer is actually the one who has to trust that you will send him the product after he pays you. Since that is the way business is done - buyer pays seller, seller sends product, never the other way around. Although half before and half after payment is sometimes acceptable.

    If you're a buyer though, it's probably best that you buy from a reputable user, although sometimes you just can't avoid that.
     
    Eli B, Nov 7, 2007 IP
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    dynashox Premium Member Staff

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    #35
    If you're a seller, just ask whoever want to purchase it pay you first. Then you will sent the files after you receive the payment.

    That is how business goes right?
     
    dynashox, Nov 7, 2007 IP
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    #36
    That would take a degree of integrity - you spot the problem?
     
    CountryBoy, Nov 7, 2007 IP
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    thapame Well-Known Member

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    #37
    better avoid him
     
    thapame, Nov 7, 2007 IP
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    boron Well-Known Member

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    #38
    Isn't trust about trust? You trust someone that he will do the good job, it is not like you can know. You can have some reasons to trust or not, and some feelings to trust or not. On the end I always listen to my feelings and I have great experience with this. To trust someone I need to be peaceful about that.

    The main questin is maybe: Is it right that I do business with this and this person?
     
    boron, Nov 7, 2007 IP