Is this cheating?

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  1. Cylon

    Cylon Peon

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    #81
    right on sb. I'm with you. The movie Sixteen Candles was all about the friend of a girl who wants her but is a puss and doesn't try so he never gets her. That happens all the time. It's all about physical nature. If you like chicks, you're goal will be to get them, not be their friend.
     
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  2. DeniseJ

    DeniseJ Live, Laugh, Love

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    #82
    I'm not an idiot.

    I'm quite aware when men are hitting on me. My roommate has never hit on me and I don't think he plans to start now.

    With the exception of one older female, all of my friends are men. I've rarely had a problem with a male friend SERIOUSLY trying to hit on me. Am I to believe I'm the exception to the rule then? Because I have plenty of male friends who are strictly that - friends.
     
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  3. Karen May Jones

    Karen May Jones Prominent Member

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    #83
    No, it's not cheating. The truth is that your mate has had somebody else on the side for a much longer time than you. It's an open partnership type of thangy.
     
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  4. Cylon

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    #84
    just because you think they are only friends has no bearing whatsoever on what they would LIKE to be with you.
     
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    Freelance GD Well-Known Member

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    #85
    May be you are not a girl or they dont know that you are a girl or they dont find any attraction in you.

    'you' is not DeniseJ :rolleyes:

    But one thing is for sure that a female and a male can never be JUST friends. Its not possible. Be realistic.

    PS: Exceptions are always there :rolleyes:
     
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  6. sb1234

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    #86
    I don't think you are an idiot, but take it from guys, men think that way. Im a good guy, im married, im not perverted, im actually a Christian and attend church every Wednesday and Sunday, but i know men think that way, and we are very lustful creatures.
     
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    #87
    I do not agree with this statement. I have plenty of female friends and I would not want to have sexual relations with the majority of them as I do not want to risk our relationships - it is well known that former lovers cannot be friends.

    May be because I am getting older and priorities change as you age...
     
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  8. StepUp

    StepUp Active Member

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    #88
    I agree with Baumann, it's easier to sustain a friendship if you're never involved, then to sustain one if you use to be lovers.

    To answer the creator's question = Absolutely it's cheating.
     
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  9. DeniseJ

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    #89
    God... THANK YOU. I'm glad someone seems to actually realize that males and females can have perfectly healthy relationships as just friends.

    Oh.. and by the way... whoever said this - I can't remember now off the top of my head - but let me assure you, I am most definitely a girl, thank you very much.
     
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  10. timsdd

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    #90
    don't I know it [​IMG]
     
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    GRIM Prominent Member

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    #91
    The jury is still out on Tim though! :eek:
     
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  12. sb1234

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    #92
    Well maybe its possible, but i still believe a mans natural instinct is there, though it may be supressed
     
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  13. timsdd

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    #93
    what the! It's an outtie! :mad::D
     
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    #94
    definitely YES..you did that while in a relationship..it's definitely cheating.
     
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    #95
    I don´t think we´re meant to understand each others, if we did, life would be way boring.
     
    Blogmaster, Oct 30, 2007 IP
  16. DeniseJ

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    #96
    I doubt that Mike... life would be way less COMPLICATED if men and women understood each other.
     
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  17. Cylon

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    #97
    less complicated is boring.
     
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    #98
    I would love to understand women, especially my wife
     
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    #99
    Not to me. I don't thrive on complication.
     
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    #100
    conflict, complication, communication

    the problem is which one?
     
    timsdd, Oct 30, 2007 IP