in this thread i will teach you how to pick up girls

Is there a post on how to pick up the good guy?

 

-act like a friend
-play it cool
-don't go after lost causes
-smile

those are the magic ones

 

Picking up girls is a piece of cake, it's getting rid of them that's the challenge

 

such beautiful eyes...

dont be shy...its amazing how many options you seem to have when you are open and outgoing around people

you have to go through a lot to find something you like

 

Very true, it is excellent advice unlike most other silly stuff I have read.

I will take it further and this isn't directed at Buffalo and its of a sexual nature. Once you have the womans attention and she is interested and if it is sex you would like to pursue ASAP: The friend thing is excellent (but you do not want stay there) and the basis of any good relationship. DO NOT overplay the sex topic...let that ride in both your subconcious. You can get sex anyway if she feels she will enjoy it, can trust you and this is not your only objective.

1. Be her friend/she can trust you
2. Give her a moral "out"

Most women need a bit more connection (a reason) to be intimate because the consequences of sex are generally higher for females by society and nature. You must give a woman a moral "out".Generally women don't want to be seen as/known as sluts, whores, sexually aggressive or sleeping around.

If she can trust you and you are a friend, she has a reason to be intimate, (she is not being irresponsibly promiscuous) and she feels you will take some responsibility for any consequences that arise from sexual activity.

I had my girlfriend today offer to "not have a relationship", but be "friends with benefits". Which is exactly what I want/need but wouldn't tell her. I'm really too busy for a "real relationship" ...full time college, work etc.

Why do women offer this? Because they trust and like you and know you are not out to just use them per se. Although she may want to use you for sex as well.

Hope that isn't offensive to the women but when a guy hears the words lets just be F*** buddies or friends with benefits it is often music to his ears. Or at least this guy who isn't ready again for a full out marriage/relationship.

 

expose and sexpose Guys don't think further!

 

You know, when I was married I would have been like "this guy is a jerk", but now that I'm single, I totally hear ya

 

mmmm yea, I can imagine a few women and men might see me that way. I know its a bit slutty and maybe not ideal but I gave up drinking and drugs years ago and other bad habits...

For now I'm stickin with the single life while I can.

As a woman what do you think of a man with a vasectomy? I'm thinkin about it.

 

I don't think it's slutty if it's with the same person. We're all human. We all need to get some action every once in awhile!

 

learnt something about girls

 

thanks for you view on this. Some things might actually work.

 

Good question..

 

I appreciate your tips about picking up girls! Thanks!

 

Welcome to DP, ecsuite

Some valuable tips there for a change

~MG

 

now I know how you do it!!!!!!

 

thanks guys, this looks like a really good board

 

Thanks for a wonderful info..

I am going to try it from tomorrow

 

The infallible technique for picking up girls is to tell them how you like your breakfast in the morning. Combined with body odour and bad breath it's surefire panty dynamite.

 

Grocery stores at night.

The chicks are there in their natural form...no makeup, no work clothes and they're HUNGRY!