Relationship or one night stand?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Jerlene.net, Oct 14, 2007.

  1. #1
    If you liked someone a lot but they just want to be friends, would you try to get them to like you more to build into a relationship or are you okay with a one night stand?
     
    Jerlene.net, Oct 14, 2007 IP
  2. getjimmy

    getjimmy Prominent Member

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    i would prefer a long term relationship,theres only one night in one night stand but in longterm relationship every night is yours...
     
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    Colleen Illustrious Member

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    #3
    I don't believe it's possible to "get" someone to like you more, they either feel it or not. My relationships are always long-term, not into that ONS stuff.
     
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    Zulka Peon

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    #4
    if I would like somebody, I would go for relationship...
    if I would need some fun -no strings.. one night will do..
     
    Zulka, Oct 14, 2007 IP
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    Jarodboy Prominent Member

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    #5
    One night stand...
    If the sex was good enough, then long term relationship.
     
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  6. Jerlene.net

    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    What if the sex sucked but you still kind of had feelings or the person?
     
    Jerlene.net, Oct 14, 2007 IP
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    Colleen Illustrious Member

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    #7
    Teach them new tricks, show them how you like it. :)
     
    Colleen, Oct 14, 2007 IP
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    haha A lot of guys are stubborn though. They already think they're the best.
     
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    Colleen Illustrious Member

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    Yeah, it's unfortunate, I guess they'll have to be taught a lesson. ;)
     
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    Jarodboy Prominent Member

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    No feelings can resist bad sex. LOL
     
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    It's hard to say, but I'd rather have a One Night Stand. No matter the rate of people who've failed at this, I'd much rather just have a possibly great day with a woman that I just find okay and all than trying to have a relationship with that woman, in which whom I'll probably fail at more likely and waste all the time with a girl that I just thought was meh.
     
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    #12
    Long term relationship here.
     
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    I'd go with a long term relationship.
     
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    #14
    Where's the option for fucking buddies?
     
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    Jerlene.net Prominent Member

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    Why post in a thread you have no relevant interest in?
     
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    #16
    Both okay for me if i like her.
     
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    #17
    If they just wanted to be friends, I would leave it at that. I would just be their friend, but always hoping for more. ;)

    And I am absolutely a long-term relationship kind of girl.

    Now that is a viable option, if both people agree on it. Just friends, free sex, no strings attached. Not my kind of thing, but to each his own...
     
    buffalo, Oct 14, 2007 IP
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    Are you this long-term relationship kind of girl ? congrats , i hope you won't hurt anyone ;)
     
    leandar, Oct 14, 2007 IP
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    #19
    That's friends with benefits = one night stand.
     
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    dcristo Illustrious Member

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    #20
    I find it funny that as a girl you mention the free sex :D I see what you mean though. The money you invest in keeping a happy relationship is basically paying for sex anyway :p
     
    dcristo, Oct 14, 2007 IP