People have been talking , of late,about having sexual experience before marriage.

Recently, many youth are talking about gaining some kind of experience in sex before marriage. I am talking about men and women having sex before marriage just because they feel they need to get some experience before marriage to perform better in bed. It is totally different from someone having premarital sex because he/she was overwhelwemed by his/her feelings. This is a case where people have sex before marriage as if they are preparing themselves for marriage.Are they merely trying to justify their acts of premarital sex? Do they make any sense? Do you think that it is essential? Did you or do you have similar ideas?

 

I don't completely understand what you are asking, but yeah I had lost my virginity before I got married. Infact I'm still not married.

 

I think it,s a good idea to see if you are compatible..as long as you do it safely.
No good getting married and finding out later that you don't enjoy being together, thats part of being married!!!
A good sex life in marriage keeps it alive and well!!

 

So many people have sex before their marriage,i will do the same things,will you care about when you are going to have sex,if you find the right person?so any time will be okay since you are an adult.

 

how do you know if you want a ticket to the amusement park if you never rode on a rollercoaster before?

 

The same ol' questions again

There are quite a few factors to consider and it really depends on the person's value . I don't think I would press my "value" on this topic onto anyone

 

Dude if its straight sex i say go for it!
hell do it 10 times before you mary someone
and um...soap up

 

I think a man just needs to plug it in there and everything will be ok as johnson knows his way into the tunnle

How many times do you think someone need to do it the right way ?

Why now just get this experience with your wife ? even if it takes few months - you still have a life with her to imply what you learn in the first days


Tech Entrance
25 years -and counting - old virgin

 

soapyboobs...I hope to X that there isn't a male version....soapynads!

 

man you just turned me off >_____________<`

 

It is not to be experienced before marriage I dont think, it is more once you marry you want to be faithful so why not try it out before you enter into a binding relationship. There's no point in getting married and doing it the first time with your partner and later on down the track wonder if it is the same with others ( infidelity might occur)..Try before you buy kinda thing...

 

Its more then 20 times .. and m still testing myself .. may be the day i will be satisfied i will marry

 

The Johnson knows his way into the tunnel, but doesn't know how to crawl inside of it if he doesn't have the experience

 

You wouldn't buy a house before you have looked inside it would you??

 

mustard!



Being married now, I am against it. I think prior to marriage you have sex 17 times a day, sometimes 18 (1/2 of which is usually with your partner) but once you get married? that number drops significantly...that is unless you communicate with your spouse and work together to make sure that portion of your relationship does not become held hostage by time/energy obligations (or lack of lube).

 

I don't see that it's essential before marraige.

Half the fun is learning together

 

fairyj is correct. You don't have to know. 50 years ago it wasn't uncommon to wait for marriage.

 

My personal opinion I believe that we at least need to experience what it feels like before getting married, so we'll know what t do

 

Is THAT what you use the mustard for???

 

not if I can help it