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If someone of your Family member has HIV+ How will you deal with him?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Philip C. Ngo, Feb 3, 2014.

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    in the word there are millions of people which have HIV+ ,
    If someone of your Family member has HIV+ How to Deal With him?
     
    Philip C. Ngo, Feb 3, 2014 IP
  2. wisdomtool

    wisdomtool Moderator Staff

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    "Deal" with him? HIV+ is not easily spread by normal contacts, there should not be any stigma on him. Just continue as per normal and encourage him to live a healthy life style.
     
    wisdomtool, Feb 3, 2014 IP
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    Nette Active Member

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    Well, HIV cannot be spreaded by normal, day-to-day activities, so it's perfectly fine to stay with the patient. However you need to have psychological preparation as HIV is dangerous for the patient and s/he may pass away at any time.
     
    Nette, Feb 3, 2014 IP
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    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    If you roll the dice, you're in the game. Negligence has a price.

    [​IMG]
     
    Kerosene, Feb 3, 2014 IP
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    Densely Well-Known Member

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    Do not need to do anything to deal with him.
    Just behave with him as you normally do with other person.
    That's all.
     
    Densely, Feb 3, 2014 IP
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    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    While your family member may get sick from time to time they are not a "patient". The massive improvements in therapies mean that HIV isn't the death sentence it used to me. You still wouldn't wish it on your worst enemy but you live with HIV these days.
     
    sarahk, Feb 3, 2014 IP
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    digitalpoint Overlord of no one Staff

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    Make sure you aren't having unprotected sex with them. Although, if you are having sex (even protected) with a family member, well... you have a lot of things to worry about in your life.
     
    digitalpoint, Feb 3, 2014 IP
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    whitetrader Greenhorn

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    support them, we avoid the disease not to the people. give them spirit to move on, do not isolate them.
     
    whitetrader, Feb 4, 2014 IP
  9. Philip C. Ngo

    Philip C. Ngo Member

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    It is regrettable ,what do you mean man?
    I don't say at the moment my family member has hiv+ just a question for Public awareness .so Please don't judge me
     
    Philip C. Ngo, Feb 4, 2014 IP
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    sarahk iTamer Staff

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    are you kidding?
    So what is your motivation for raising public awareness of this particular topic? So many to choose from... I think you have some experience but now I wonder if you are ashamed? That's nuts, there is nothing to be ashamed about.
     
    sarahk, Feb 4, 2014 IP
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    Um yeah. So what is your plan? To never have sex with anyone?

    That is hilarious! My guess is that you missed the wry sense of humor here.
     
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    It should be treated as a disease and not a curse and I would do the same for sure.
     
    Aabhinav, Feb 5, 2014 IP
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    the best way is keeping contunie act like normal as always. imo, this is the best way for yourself and family.
     
    antistar, Feb 5, 2014 IP
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    JENNIFER23 Greenhorn

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    Be normal. Dont avoid them or over care them. Just be normal with them and cheer up
     
    JENNIFER23, Feb 9, 2014 IP
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    Kerosene Alpha & Omega™ Staff

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    Um yeah. "My plan" is to not have unprotected sex or share needles with anyone I've known for less than 15 minutes. If that means *missing out*, then so be it.
    I was lucky in my early 20s, I watched several people die, and learnt some lessons.
     
    Kerosene, Feb 14, 2014 IP
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    ok, so after said 15 minutes (my exaggeration), do you require all sexual partners to be tested? for everything? Because if you don't, then having unprotected sex afterwards is essentially the same as having it with a stranger.

    In other words, rolling the dice.
     
    ceebee, Feb 17, 2014 IP
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    tdn878 Well-Known Member

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    Oh maybe just don't have unprotected buttsecks with them lol. I know the OP was trying to be serious but this thread is too funny :)
     
    tdn878, Feb 21, 2014 IP
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    GreenGambler Notable Member

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    I wouldn't "deal" with him or her any differently. I would ask them what they needed from me and comply.
     
    GreenGambler, Feb 23, 2014 IP
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    the way i deal with you he/she is a human being too .. all i want is to spread love :cool:
     
    dadoflinks, Feb 25, 2014 IP