I'm married and I flirt, do you?

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  1. #1
    I'm married not dead!

    Do you flirt? Are you married? Thoughts?
     
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  2. Empire C Ltd

    Empire C Ltd Greenhorn

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    If you're married and you still flirt with other people then there's something wrong with you. That's wrong. You should be loyal to your wife and/or husband and shouldn't be flirting with others while in a marriage, let alone a relationship!
     
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  3. Howard Lim

    Howard Lim Active Member

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    hey there's nothing wrong with flirting. I flirt with my fiancee all the time. It keeps the relationship alive. :)
     
    Howard Lim, Jun 18, 2013 IP
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    Married and still flirting can be the most ridiculous thing to do, you should focus on your married life. Flirting is a very serious thing to do.
     
    lesa mitchell, Jun 18, 2013 IP
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    qwikad.com Illustrious Member Affiliate Manager

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    You should tell this to your wife. She'll make sure you're dead! LOL! :rolleyes:
     
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    I am not married but i flirt.
    I am engaged now but trying to leave the flirtation because now i think its suck.
     
    Best SEO Link Seller, Jun 19, 2013 IP
  7. pupul

    pupul Prominent Member

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    How will you feel if your husband do the same?
     
    pupul, Jun 19, 2013 IP
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    elbertjacques Peon

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    #8
    If you are married and you still flirt with other lady is wrong.
     
    elbertjacques, Jun 19, 2013 IP
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    BusinessSpy Active Member

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    Not married, but understand you..flirt is in our blood, we are men :)
     
    BusinessSpy, Jun 19, 2013 IP
  10. Howard Lim

    Howard Lim Active Member

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    But we are also Human. Sometimes a little control is well appreciated by the other gender.
     
    Howard Lim, Jun 20, 2013 IP
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    BusinessSpy Active Member

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    Of course it is..But not so much control. It can be bad for us :)
     
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    Namesta Greenhorn

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    Hey, my humble opinion as a not married man is that its a really fine line from going to flirting to desire.
    Still talking as a single man out there, i know when i flirt what im really hopping for is something completely different. Now, i have to think of all the other man doing the exact same thing to married women, and what they really want and how if i was married i so would not like that stuff going on with my wife. Sure you can advocate if you dont trust your wife you dont deserve her, i say this, sometimes even when we are not looking for anything, anything still finds you. :)
     
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    HomeDesigner Well-Known Member

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    What would you think if your wife was flirting ? she married she's not dead !
     
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    I have talked with some girl I would like to marry :D
    Chances are near nil, but.. She told me she would, but only within some limits.
    I wouldnt. I would continue to chat, but would never let any woman so close that we could call it "flirt"
    I would not chat up any woman just like that
    (of course, would not flirt with men either :D )
    But i would not forbid it.. thats something I couldnt, only tell, that i dont like it.. (not directly)
     
    iceberg8, Jun 20, 2013 IP
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    Ted Reka Well-Known Member

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    I think flirting during a relationship or even a marriage is healthy. It keeps each half interested in it's partner.
    I'm only 18, I don't really know much about marriage, but I know that in a relationship it can be healthy, and the highest risk is breaking up, but in a marriage the risk is higher, especially that a marriage is a union of two people that will spend their life together.
     
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    I'm 28, Ive been with my girl 4 years now. I don't feel innocent flirting is wrong but I don't do it. If she did/does Id rather not know. But I wouldn't be upset, Id be upset if it was kissing or sex. But any harmless conversation or looking. Why care, its human nature to look at appealing people and things, You would be a weirdo not to be visually attracted to good looking things.

    I don't usually flirt or even develop relationships with women, I always convinced myself that doing so only leads to two things. A life long of arguments over things that are not important by any means, and children. So until I want a kid or a life long of arguments, I think that staying to the good old PC most the day is the best bet. And as long as my old lady comes home every night and I feel she needs me, who cares about the rest. Nobody owns anybody.
     
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    htmlindex Prominent Member

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    It's wrong for a woman to flirt, unless they are prepared to go all the way. Lol
     
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    pupul Prominent Member

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    #18

    Kyliemeg is female.
    You should ask
    I see many thinks Kyliemeg a male. Please she her profile.
     
    pupul, Jun 21, 2013 IP
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    If you can handle your wife/husband cheating on you, you can keep doing it !
     
    professionalist, Jun 27, 2013 IP
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    I think that marriage should be respected, which is why I don't plan on getting married. I just want to have my fun, and it seems like most of the world agrees. Cheating is so rampant these days.
     
    ViolentAJ, Jun 28, 2013 IP