Hi Friends, Am in a bit of a daisy situation now. I dated a lady some years ago and unfortunately due to distance we lost contact and so we were not again for a long time. I met her again and i proposed a reunion she agreed. We got discussing and she told me something strange. She told me her old boyfriend once posted her nude picture on facebook and that she didnt offend him in anyway. Since then i have been contemplating on discontinuing with her because i hated what i heard so much. And i suddenly have a problem with trusting her. But i still kind of like her. What can i do? Pls advise me friends.
Let me get this right...... you don't trust her because she told you an ex boyfriend of her posted a nude pic of her on FB? To me that sounds she was being hounest, i mean she did not have to tell you, right?
Well she had to tell me but i just have this strange feeling of untrust. This is because she travels a lot and i am just thinking that if she could allow such an indecent thing with her ex boyfriend, she could as well be lured again by another ex boyfriend to have sex. Dont you think so? May be its just me but i am just skeptical
Bro it's 2012........ cıuples taking nude pics of eachother is just normal. Whatever happens with the pics after the relationship is just nothing to worry about.... hell, in the adult industry this even has it's own niche. I wouldn't worry about it to much.
I don't know how things like this work in Nigeria but basically you have two choices, * deal with it and go out with her * walk away there are millions of other women you can date whose morals will be more in line with your own. Perhaps you should leave the past in the past?
I guess this begs the question... do you find boobs to be a moral dilemma? 1. She presumably has boobs - is that what bothers you? 2. She took a nude pic for a then boyfriend - is that what bothers you? 3. Her ex-boyfriend posted said pics to facebook - is that what bothers you? If it is 1 or 2 then you probably should leave this nice lady alone. If it 3 then you need to just get over it.
There are so many unknowns... is the picture still live, is she tagged in it Personally if some ex of mine started chatting me up and then got all heavy about something that doesn't involve him I'd be out the door.