Just wondering how many people out there stay away from posting and just communicate with other members via PM only.... I myself enjoy posting, but have sometimes run into trouble by slipping on a rule here and there in the past... Luckily I've improved over the years and rarely get any infractions anymore...
If the thread is in BST, I will usually only PM. Posting gets me in too much trouble, usually. I only post if I have a question to ask which everyone will need to know, for example, if someone posts that they want articles, I might reply within the thread asking the niche they want the articles written in. That's about it.
For me I mainly lurk about in the websites for sale section and find the best way for me to communicate is via pm . With PM I can get all the info I need and begin negotiating prices etc.
Thanks for the replies Grumpster and Lozdadon! Do you ever run into challenges from having a low post count, like people not trusting you, or inability to do something on the forums here?
Of course. I've been around DP a long time and sent out 2,000+ business related PM's, most of which are usually then taken to other methods of communication due to restrictions on the PM system here at DP. I find a lot of the time people don't want to trust a user with 50 posts, even if he does have a lot of business experience. It's just the way DP works, really.
Yeah i have had similar issues regarding users not trusting me due to my low post count but there just loosing out on potential sales/bids from me. In the last hour Ive seen a few sites i was looking to bid on/buy but the owner has made specific instructions that they would not do business with people who have low post counts
I find that really annoying, I've run into similar issues... like with the iTrader system, how if two people don't see eye to eye on something in a transaction, usually it ends up with both parties getting negative feedback, even if you did everything in your power to placate them... Then somebody comes around in a sales thread and starts spouting not to trust you because your last feedback was negative, even though it cost an arm and a leg of your time and was over $5 or something silly like that. Maybe if we all push things forward to be more positive and less cynical we can usher in a new era of everybody getting along. lol
Now I find that really stupid when it comes to buyers... Money talks, and if you have it, why in the heck would a seller want to refuse it...???
I've been circumspect as of late as to what I post. Sometimes discretion being the better part of valor,I do choose the PM option. One has to be careful to not illicit a "post has no value" infraction from the mods.
LOL. That's a very good point! I guess they probably wouldn't.... perhaps it would spark up the inclination to do so....?