why it's so hard to get some traffic?

Me and my ex dated for almost a year and a half before she abruptly broke up with me last month. Citing her reason as she just had a feeling. I felt there was more but all I could get out of her was. I really need to find myself firt before I can be in a relationship with anyone. I knew this wasn't getting me anywhere so I said maybe we shouldn't talk for August. Give a month apart ot get our selves outside of our relationship back together. She wasn't happy with this but had no choice in the matter. She texted me a few times saying that she missed me and called but didn't leave any messages. Then Sunday night she messaged a couple of my firends on facebook, so I called her and asked her what she wanted. She gave me this speach about how she's grown a lot and realised that she leans to heavily on other peopel and she throws out the word I love you too much so it doesn't mean anythign anymore. And I congratulated her on her revelations and asked if that was all and she said. Yah I guess, so I said good night and hung up. Apparently she wasn't done and messaged an good female friend of mine saying I was a douche, to which she replied "If I still lived in Edmonton I'd **** slap some sense into you you little twat,". <3 Any who so my FF gets a hold of me and I roll my eyes and cave calling my ex. She says "I wasn't done," you said you were and then she said. I love you. and I'm like please. You don't even know me anymore, I don't know you either. If you want this us being friends thing to work we're going to have to start out all over again, but for now I need some time away from you. So she said okay when you're ready text me. Then this morning she texts me "Truth I can't be with you cause there's someone I love more,"

 

Traffic is very difficulty, keep traffic is more difficulty. Google always change and we are too, to have traffic

 

if you want to get good traffic then you should need to do work on the quality and high pr sites and should need to work on the social media sites.social media sites are very good way to getting good traffic for your websites.

 

So, bascially we should lay more stress on articles, blogs.....

 

you can easily get traffic to your website by doing social bookmarking . if you have accounts in social networking websites you can post your links there... social bookmarking is the queckest way to get traffic..

 

Just keep posting relevant and try to target sites that is same with your niche. And keep on dealing with social networks.

 

I've found that organic search doesn't really start paying dividends until you're in the top 4. And the difference between #1 and #2 is immense.

 

But on my non SEO blog forum posting has worked extremely well. Extremely. Just visit a well trafficked related blog and post your comment early on a new article.

 

What platform did you used? you can use blogger for your traffic source..

 

I am agree with you that those techniques take too long time and if you want to come on top and increase the number of visitors so firstly you must be optimize your on page and then collect some back links by the edu, gov and some high pr website or some paid links.