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  1. #1
    My dear friends. I just want to know that is it good to be possessive towards your Gf/bf.?
     
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  2. The Webby

    The Webby Peon

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    #2
    Nope......
     
    The Webby, Aug 1, 2011 IP
  3. CountryBoy

    CountryBoy Prominent Member

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    #3
    No, not overly possessive.
    Protective is fine, but you mustn't let your protectiveness hamper their freedom.
     
    CountryBoy, Aug 1, 2011 IP
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    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    Being possessive has to do with being insecure.If you are insecure you have low self esteem and lack self confidence.If your partner is possessive or jealous then get out of the relationship now and don't look back.They will always want to control you and happiness in this kind of relationship is an impossiblity.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Aug 1, 2011 IP
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    kittyluver Notable Member

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    #5
    Yes!!! But over possessiveness will lead to break the relationship.
     
    kittyluver, Aug 1, 2011 IP
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    #6
    a little bit shows you care.. alot ruins it.. there is a thin line.. make sure you dont cross it or you will lose your partner
     
    foodsurveys, Aug 12, 2011 IP
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    carol.prime Active Member

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    #7
    Agreed!

    One should know how to balance their feelings.
     
    carol.prime, Aug 12, 2011 IP
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    not always,, just try to believe,,,
     
    arnold smith, Aug 12, 2011 IP
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    kittyluver Notable Member

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    Definitely!!! Possessiveness will make the bond more intimate.
     
    kittyluver, Oct 17, 2011 IP
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    danasurvey Well-Known Member

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    No. It's good to trust and have faith in the person you love.
     
    danasurvey, Oct 17, 2011 IP
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    #11
    I think it is okay when it is mild...but once it becomes out of control, then no.

    I have a boyfriend who I wouldn't say is possessive of me, but does get lonely/jealous when I am hanging out with someone else. This has definitely caused some resentment.
     
    ktjones, Oct 17, 2011 IP
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    #12
    of course, NOT...
     
    alodia, Oct 17, 2011 IP
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    #13
    I don't appreciate this.
     
    gmorshed23, Oct 17, 2011 IP
  14. Aristot

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    #14
    I think NOPE is the difinitive answer.
     
    Aristot, Nov 8, 2011 IP
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    #15
    It's not good to be possessive towards your Gf/bf!
     
    vstefan, Nov 8, 2011 IP
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    #16
    there should be care, protectiveness in relationship rather than possisiveness ....
     
    Meenakshi, Nov 10, 2011 IP
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    #17
    Being possessive for me, is a negative word.. I think I'm gonna call it, "loosing the person you love" phobia.. :D
     
    gabsuarez, Nov 11, 2011 IP
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    #18
    just care your bf/gf.dont be over possessive..
     
    perth2011, Nov 12, 2011 IP
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    If relationship comes then first comes mother and son relation on this planet only our mother takes care of ourselves after then only b/f or g/f.
     
    Jenny4u, Nov 19, 2011 IP
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    Irfi0009 Banned

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    #20
    both relationship important for human ......
     
    Irfi0009, Nov 19, 2011 IP