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How to stop complaining?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by pzwt, Aug 1, 2011.

  1. #1
    Most of us are always whinning and compalining all the time, it seems as if there are always endless instances where we can find a reason to complain. Though we know we've experienced plenty of unpleasantness due to complaining about things we can not control, while it is hard for us to stop complaining. Well, are there any measures to stop complaining?
     
    pzwt, Aug 1, 2011 IP
  2. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    This is a good subject.I think in regards to complaining and why we do it,I think we need to practice the concept of acceptance.We need to understand that everyone has issues.Life is stress and we ought to not be so negative about it.There is an old Chinese proverb,"I felt bad because I had no shoes,then I saw a beggar crawl by who had no feet".So when we complain we ought to remind ourselves that there are others far worse off and stop complaining.
     
    Spoiltdiva, Aug 1, 2011 IP
  3. whatihave

    whatihave Peon

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    I think being continually aware and grateful for all the wonderful things that we have in our lives and all the positive things can help curb complaining.
     
    whatihave, Aug 2, 2011 IP
  4. The Webby

    The Webby Peon

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    Have pockets full of Marshmallows, and whenever you feel like complaining about anything, put one in your mouth. Don't chew, don't swallow. Just keep it in your mouth [and drool :p]
    You won't complain.


    Or you can have a pocketful of sunshine and make this world bright.. No one will complain then.

    [video=youtube;gte3BoXKwP0]http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=gte3BoXKwP0[/video]
     
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    The Webby, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    chelley Peon

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    when you really do nothing, you always complain. always be thankful for all the things that you have, be positive, appreciate things and you'll realize that there are so many wonderful things to be grateful about.
     
    chelley, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    Isaiah Jackson Peon

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    Yeah, stop complaining and realize that doesn't do anything for you. Start using your complaining habit and start fixing it. If you see a problem fix it no complaining at all
     
    Isaiah Jackson, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    sohpia z Peon

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    Whatever you do, do it for yourself.
     
    sohpia z, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    dairyman Notable Member

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    Some people are more complaining than others. Probably it is in their genes...:D
     
    dairyman, Aug 2, 2011 IP
  9. Isaiah Jackson

    Isaiah Jackson Peon

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    Yeah, well that really wouldn't surprise me. Its like people want things done for them instead of doing things themselves 
     
    Isaiah Jackson, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    neo127 Active Member

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    My favorite way to stop them is to just simply ignoring them because all they do is to just grab the attention of people and if we keep ignoring them than will soon understand that this trick also don't work.
     
    neo127, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    Dear , really cool ! take me away , and u will see sunshine , if you stop complain !
     
    freejing, Aug 2, 2011 IP
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    I agree. I always have to stop myself when I'm in the midst of complaining to my friends and think "do they really want to hear this or am I just bringing them down with me?" I'm learning to stop myself earlier and focus on the positive things in life. (and spare my friends on dwelling on the negative)
     
    webarcher, Aug 3, 2011 IP
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    rockyg Peon

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    To quote Rocky:

    "And when things got hard, you started looking for someone to blame....and not pointing fingers saying you ain't where you are because of him or her or anybody! Cowards do that and that ain't you! You're better than that! "

    Says it all.
     
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    I tell myself its not that bad and to just stop complaining and find a resolution.
     
    jharr53301, Aug 3, 2011 IP
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    mak3r Greenhorn

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    your life is not as bad as u think. it's always true. don't forget about it. everything always seems worth than it is really
     
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    ... you have to learn to STOP sweating the small stuff
    be grateful for what you have....think positive vibes
    and good things WILL happen!
     
    sundown16, Aug 3, 2011 IP
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    we can't never stop complaining. agree with sundown 16. think posotive and everything will be alright. have a good day guys
     
    missgeorge, Aug 3, 2011 IP