Saint or Sinner?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by Bluelining, Jul 28, 2011.

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    You've given your all and have proven your love against all odds. One day you found out that your partner is a cheater. What will you do? Forgive, forget and give the person a chance? Or would you get even and hurt your partner more?..
     
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  2. missgeorge

    missgeorge Member

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    For me, everyone deserve a second chance. Try to talk and discuss with your partner why does she/he cheated. Forgive her/him but don't 100% show that you have forgive her/him. Chances for her/him to cheated on you again is big.
     
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  3. alodia

    alodia Peon

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    Its easy to say you forgive but the pain is there.. just be true.. let them pay the price.. its their choice to make sin =) but always left some love for yourself.
     
    alodia, Jul 29, 2011 IP
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    never forgive someone who cheated on you, since once the deed is done is will most certainly do it again in the future, it's just a matter of time
     
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  5. The Webby

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    If my partner cheats on me, it means she is not happy with me.. I'll cut her lose so she can pursue happiness as she pleases.

    (In other words, I'll kick her out)
     
    The Webby, Jul 29, 2011 IP
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    chris_ad Peon

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    if my partner cheat on me, i'll give a second chance. if she cheat on me again....i'll cut my relation with her without give her a third chance, and i'll just see her as an old-ordinary-friend.

    hmmm i'll try to move on without any grudge to her, b'cause i'm pretty sure if she still doing the same act to another man as she done to me....she will pay for her deeds someday -you reap what you sow rule-

    and this rule applied on me and all men too :p
     
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    Achiever Well-Known Member

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    i think that you can forgive to him in case of cheating.................
     
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    w3bmaster Notable Member

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    I never forgive/forget such things ...
     
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  9. Spoiltdiva

    Spoiltdiva Acclaimed Member

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    When your partner has cheated on you all trust is gone.If they did this and crossed that line,how do you know it won't happen again? Because they give you their word that it won't? They have proven by cheating that their word is useless.They cheat,they end the relationship.That is a universal rule that transends all religions,cultures,races and genders.
     
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    toybreastcom Greenhorn

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    If i found her to be a cheater, i would dump her immediately and get on with my life.
     
    toybreastcom, Jul 31, 2011 IP