Who all is interested in making an imact on the opposite sex?

Hi Fellow DP members.

Just general chat!

Who all over here is interested in attracting the opposite sex?

And should you pay for it, if you get to know the secrets of attraction.?

Would YOU pay for it?

Please post your opinions regarding this

 

I'd be more interested in (straight people naturally) who isn't interested in attracting the opposite sex.

 

I think selling "attraction secrets" is B.S.

There's one thing that will attract people like magnets, both in a romantic and a business or political context, a friendly context, or any context...and that's genuine self-confidence, and genuine kindness. Having your act together in life doesn't hurt either. It doesn't matter how confident you are if you can't follow through with stuff!

A lot of the whole stuff about "attraction secrets" involve manipulation. Not only is this unethical, but it will attract the wrong people. Why? People with low self-confidence, who are needy, are more easily manipulated than those with high self-confidence.

Believe me, you don't want to date someone who is needy and has low self-confidence...that's just a formula for failure in a relationship. First develop your own confidence, and then go out and be yourself and be honest. You'll attract other self-confident people and you'll have better relationships than if you ever focus on "attracting" people.

 

but those people are a start for us arent they.....u cant go straight to the super hot ones.......u need to build up your own confidence first.....

what do u think

 

That depends on the age.

A normal and healthy human being would like to attract the attention of the opposite sex but playing within the limit is always better for the both

 

You definitely need to see the sun more and feel the wind outside your room if you think that you need to buy these "attention secrets" just to attract someone you like.

Go get some sunshine sonny.

 

im not buying anything.....but would you? thats all im asking

 

Be yourself- Love yourself first. If you are confident in yourself, your confidence will attract people. Be funny- Make people laugh. As we age, we all get wrinkles We all look older but the one thing you can't lose is your wit
People like to be around people who make them laugh
Don't take life so seriously- Nobody gets out alive

 

This, is the most solid advice I ever saw on DP. Follow it people.

 

I m pretty much interested in attracting opposite sex but only when i m free and i flirt opposite sex just for fun !

 

I love the opposite sex and of course interested

 

i agree with star420....its the most solid advice

nd yeah....who doesnt want to do flirt with the opposite sex

 

I wont buy buy any tricks , that would mean faking by following those tricks.

 

I don't need to buy anything. I'm actually the one that gives the tips to other people. I already know all the secrets, but no girl is worth it to me(which is why I feel sad all the time) so I don't try to attract them. I just wait for the day that I find true love. I want to meet a girl like Rose in Titanic and I doubt there will ever be a girl like her. I have yet to find one but one of these days I will.

 

Answering your thread title as to "who" in a word
It'd be "Singles"

 

Secrets of attraction type BS is basically this; "Pay money. Read this eBook. Get sex."

Why not cut out the middle man and just pay money for sex?

 

One thing which is to be remembered from these books is not to pray or similar, because it's pointless and detracting.

 

If you pray, you're a hopeless weakling.

 

Are you post count bumping? It doesn't seem like you even read the thread. Pfft.

Also, I'm not religious, but keep any religious related crap in P&R where it belongs XD

 

Not to forget "Free STD's"!!