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which is good arranged or love marriage?

Discussion in 'General Chat' started by wilsontom, Oct 10, 2010.

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    what is your opinion, is arranged marriage or love marriage will be a success in ones life?
     
    wilsontom, Oct 10, 2010 IP
  2. rosn007

    rosn007 Well-Known Member

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    whatever comes with honesty and true love. :)
     
    rosn007, Oct 10, 2010 IP
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    WritingConsultation Active Member

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    I prefer love marriage but that is not what determines whether a marriage will last or not.
     
    WritingConsultation, Oct 11, 2010 IP
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    You don't even have to marriage if you find true love.
     
    everydaysource, Oct 11, 2010 IP
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    Arranged marriages tend to last longer and have a much lower divorce rate.
     
    thundakiss, Oct 11, 2010 IP
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    Oh really? I thought love marriage is better normally.....
     
    Mr Black, Oct 11, 2010 IP
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    Why would anybody want to have an arranged marriage?! Even if it's gonna last for a while, you'll never be happy. Just let your heart choose the right person. Love is all you need :)
     
    Little_Big_Corgi, Oct 11, 2010 IP
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    "Love marriage" is better; you are choosing the person you love and want to spend your life with this way.

    It is true that arranged marriages have a lower divorce rate, but this is only because in cultures that still try to push their children into arranged marriages, divorce is normally considered shameful and wrong, so people stay married whether they want to or not. It is not because the marriage is happy or loving.

    The only way a marriage can last AND be happy is when you choose your own partner because you love them and are committed to them for life; nothing else matters.
     
    alexispetrov, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    Whatever suits you. Love doesn't always last, but as long as mutual respect and friendship does.
     
    abi_believe, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    I must prefer love marriage but arranged is also a good one if you don't have a choice. Its depends on how people adapt in the reality! We can feel and learn how to love!
     
    SeoVastVision, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    Agreed to the above. If you two are staying together since a long time and attracted to each other and have a mutual understanding then there is nothing better. There are lots of many more things which come into account when a decision for lifetime is to be taken but i guess love, affection, attraction & understanding are important of all.
     
    bindassdesi, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    learn2earn Well-Known Member

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    Well it depends from person to person and understanding between the two people. Most cases Divorce occurs because of lack of understanding, so if the couple is capable of being understandable then love marriage or arranged both can be successful.
     
    learn2earn, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    According to me love marriage is better than arrange marriage......Because When it comes to love marriage, both are knowing each other for a long time. They get ample time to explore both the good and the bad things about each other.:) It helps them to good comfort level after marriage. On the other hand, if two people do not know much about each other, when their marriage is arranged by their parents, then they might take some more time to knowing each other. in this case love marriage better than arrange marriage.
     
    cuteboy, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    ApocalypseXL Notable Member

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    Marriage without love is a potential abomination .
     
    ApocalypseXL, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    In my opinion, love marriage makes life beautiful. But arranged marriage is not bad. For parents always know more than us. They know what is good for us and what is bad for us. If they arranged something, they must have considered it carefully and then decided it. So I think arranged marrage won't be bad.
     
    ledbeauty, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    Arranged marriages sound like forced marriages, like you have no choice which is ridiculous.
     
    TG2006, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    Love marriage is better, but don't know which lasts longer lol
     
    theentry, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    it should be like 1st arrangement then start loving each other .....
     
    Rahim Shinwari, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    Arranged marriage seems old-fashioned and only really happens in other countries. At least I have never seen it in the US. Love cant be forced
     
    cluongo18, Oct 12, 2010 IP
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    I prefer Love marriage.
     
    Smart Boy, Oct 12, 2010 IP