Once a cheater, always a cheater?

Hi there, Relationship Advice: is it true once a cheater always a cheater? I believe that people have the ability to change. but its higher possible to cheat again for a cheater in my opinion.

please share, its better to let us know sometime from your life experience
Stories welcomed.

 

I think it depends on the circumstance of the person who has cheated.

For instance if he/she cheated because they were unhappy in there relationship, perhaps one day they will be happy and no longer cheat.

On the other hand if the person is just a complete idiot they will carry on cheating because they think its alright to do this.

 

I'm little bit agree with saint opinion, but not totally agree with him. Sometimes, they cheat only one time. but we never trust them. I hope you are agree with me.

 

Cheating is a bad vice, pretty similar with smoking. Once a smoker, always a smoker.

The possibility of a person to cheat again is highly possible IF they have already done it or tried it before.

 

Well said. Yes its just like a bad habit which is very difficult to stop

 

Depends on if they learned a lesson the first time they did it. If it was something that was recurring rather than a 1 time thing I also think makes a difference.

 

What about.... a truthful is always true??

 

I am a firm believer that people can change as long as they put their mind to it...or meet someone that plays them at their own game!

 

What I cannot understand is why anyone would want to stay with someone who has cheated on them. What they did is not only disrespectful to you but also should not be something that is forgiven. If a person feels the need to cheat with another, its telling you that they dont want you anymore.

I would kick them to the curb as once trust is gone in a relationship, then its gone.

 

I used to use cheats when playing video games but I don't anymore. See, I am a reformed cheater, so this thread title is not a truism in my opinion. Also, STEALING BASES IN BASEBALL IS NOT CHEATING!!

 

I guess its fair to assume that once someone has cheated they could well do it again,alot of people dont get caught and i doubt if anyone one a open forum will tell the real truth anyway.Cheating has and always will happen its inbuild in the human race and as long as man walks the planet it will happen,most of the time you only hear about the people who have been caught cheating what percentage of the population actual cheat we will never find out we can only guess really.I would never disclose personal details like that on a open forum the same i guess as telling people how much you earn revenue wise its just not done.

 

Wrong. People do have the ability to change their ways.

 

I cheat while playing games sometimes, but I won't cheat people in business!

 

It's really different...

In most cases cheater is always cheater, it's just a habit for someone and mindset for another
however sometimes people don't even know they do or just occurred in such circumstances that they forced to or followed the trend

Anyway, I wouldn't judge without knowing the details and yes, I tend to give second chance to everyone

 

I didn't think we are talking about sexual cheating here )))))))))))))

 

sometimes I cheat when playing video games.. once cheater always a cheater? I don't agree..

 

My current girlfriend cheated on me a long time ago, then realized I'm her life and has been the most faithful person since.

 

When a person is addicted to something then its very difficult for him to come in its previous stage because he became more used to that thing..............The same way cheaters always remains cheaters.....

 

It depends on the person..we cannot judge.