Do u mind of ur boyfriend/girlfriend cheak ur cellphone?

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  1. onlinemel

    onlinemel Peon

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    #41
    Well, girls just wanna be so sure that if you don't have any. :p I don't mind if my boyfriend checks my cellphone 'cause I know I have nothing to hide. ;)
     
    onlinemel, Aug 23, 2010 IP
  2. Asho

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    #42
    It depends on what I've on the phone.
     
    Asho, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  3. lisalisa8804

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    #43
    of course, i do mind, friends need mutual trust especially, between lovers. so i do care my BF check my phone, it will make me feel no freedom and make me suffocated.
     
    lisalisa8804, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  4. john.mcclane.inc

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    #44
    no i don't bother any body who check my cell phone because i don't have any think special so that i can mind it if some one check my cell phone
     
    john.mcclane.inc, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  5. jewmark

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    #45
    it is not a problem to me
     
    jewmark, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  6. Grit.

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    #46
    I don't mind letting my gal check my phone. Though she struggles to use my phone, I've nothing to hide from her.
     
    Grit., Aug 24, 2010 IP
  7. vallento

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    #47
    I wouldn't let me my gf go through my private things and I consider my cellphone being private. I wouldn't go through hers either.
     
    vallento, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  8. discodazza

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    #48
    one word - paranoia!

    she obviously thinks some thing fishy is going on or just doesnt trust you.

    if you havent got any thing to hide then get rid. she wont change.
     
    discodazza, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  9. b0n4r

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    #49
    i dont mind , everything is open :)
     
    b0n4r, Aug 24, 2010 IP
  10. Tiger039

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    #50
    It bothers me. If it is my wife, it is just alright.
     
    Tiger039, Aug 30, 2010 IP
  11. sarah007

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    #51
    I know my girlfriend always checks my cell. We fight over this at times but I know she does it for he is too possessive about me. :D
     
    sarah007, Sep 6, 2010 IP
  12. Nave

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    #52
    I think if you're honestly going to be in a serious relationship, there needs to be some kind of understanding of trust between both people. If you need to check your significant other's phone then obviously there are trust issues I'd say.
     
    Nave, Sep 6, 2010 IP
  13. cluongo18

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    #53
    Yes if you need to check eachother's phones all the time that means there are trust issues. But you shouldn't say "no" because that would assume you have something to hide.
     
    cluongo18, Sep 6, 2010 IP
  14. chanda

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    #54
    no i dont bear it if i m not true with her
     
    chanda, Sep 7, 2010 IP
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    #55
    I really don't care. If I love she I will still love anyway :)
     
    xjackx, Sep 7, 2010 IP
  16. keithame

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    #56
    I have nothing to hide from my friend so I dont mind if they check my cellphone
     
    keithame, Sep 7, 2010 IP
  17. Mr. Incredible

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    #57
    Yea it should. Why would they need to?
     
    Mr. Incredible, Sep 7, 2010 IP
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    #58
    It's Ok. Just don't leave not-so innocent pictures and videos in there... especially if one of the subject is not with your partner. hehe

    But yeah, I wouldn't mind. Trust is Love. :)
     
    spyder99, Sep 9, 2010 IP
  19. Joey_

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    #59
    I don't mind when she check my cell phone.
     
    Joey_, Sep 9, 2010 IP
  20. pratishtha

    pratishtha Well-Known Member

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    #60
    i don't mind at all.. i've nothing to hide.. if checking my cell he feels relief then what's the prob?
     
    pratishtha, Sep 9, 2010 IP