My best friend has Betrayed Me - What to do Now?

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  1. #1
    Hi to everyone - my best friend has betrayed me and has "stolen" my boyfriend... Now I don't know how to live further:(((
     
    Warner, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  2. kevydesigns

    kevydesigns Well-Known Member

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    #2
    Were you with the guy when she got with him or did she get with him after you broke up?

    Either way, have you spoke to her about it, it's always good to let it all out, even if it's the worst conversation ever, but I think it's always needed.
     
    kevydesigns, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  3. Serious Workers

    Serious Workers Well-Known Member

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    #3
    Just one advice "Life should always go on". :)
     
    Serious Workers, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  4. Grimm

    Grimm Peon

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    #4
    Two things:

    IF the guy is worth fighting for then go after him and claim him back.
    IF the guy is NOT worth it then I guess it's time to move on and look for someone else.

    Time can heal wounds, it only depends on how you deal with it.
     
    Grimm, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  5. mcfox

    mcfox Wind Maker

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    #5
    Wait a week. You'll feel differently about things (if not what scuzz-buckets your ex-best friend and boyfriend are). Wait two weeks and you'll wonder why you cared.
     
    mcfox, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  6. Maxed21

    Maxed21 Peon

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    #6
    On the positive side, at least you found out he's a cheater BEFORE you got married and had children. I know you're still in pain but it really is better to find out early in the relationship so you can find someone better.
     
    Maxed21, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  7. Digital_shubhi

    Digital_shubhi Illustrious Member

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    #7
    May be your boyfriend was bad and he dropped you! :|
    Its not easy to steal something! :p
     
    Digital_shubhi, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  8. extremephp

    extremephp Peon

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    #8
    So she Ran with Your BoyFriend?

    Didnt you See Am Here? :D :D

    Come With Me!! I will teach Your Wordpress, CSS or whatever :D And Teach Me Love :D

    ~Exp~
     
    extremephp, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  9. NotASavage

    NotASavage Peon

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    #9
    I was not aware that human beings are nevertheless capable of being the property of another human being in this day and age. I thought we were over slavery a long time ago.
     
    NotASavage, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  10. Korrupt

    Korrupt Well-Known Member

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    #10
    And how exactly has she "stolen" him? She can't do this without his involvement..
     
    Korrupt, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  11. mubashirnisar

    mubashirnisar Banned

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    #11
    she cant steal him without his involvement,they are not kids,so i m sure that your Ex-Bf also had interest in her,its time for you to look for another better guy
     
    mubashirnisar, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  12. Project Mobius

    Project Mobius Peon

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    #12
    then you should sleep with her dad for revenge
     
    Project Mobius, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  13. psharma

    psharma Prominent Member

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    #13
    Or you can say your boyfriend has stolen your best friend.
    In either way, cool down a bit and try to be friendly to both of them, if they both lack compatibility, you willl get at least one of them back : )
     
    psharma, Aug 6, 2010 IP
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    keith115 Active Member

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    #14
    HAHA i like that reply,

    forget and move on.
     
    keith115, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  15. afridz

    afridz Peon

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    #15
    I am single.. lol.. don worry.. dp has solutions for whole
     
    afridz, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  16. m0nk3y

    m0nk3y Active Member

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    #16
    Do his dad; it always works.
     
    m0nk3y, Aug 6, 2010 IP
  17. supernal

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    #17
    First, remember to experience the negative emotions. Don't try to suppress them. If you're angry, be angry. If you're sad, be sad. If you want to cry, then cry. Those emotions exist there for a reason. That said, don't dwell on them. Don't make every day full of anger or sorrow. Accept that something has happened, whether you like it or not, and that it has happened won't change. Move on.

    As for your friend, I would probably cut all ties with her. If you see it as an act of betrayal, I'm assuming that there is something akin to that in actuality instead of you just being a silly/stupid motherfucker, and if that's the case then there will come no good from keeping someone like that around. Find a better friend.
     
    supernal, Aug 6, 2010 IP
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    afridz Peon

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    #18
    Oh man.. DP has psychologists too..
     
    afridz, Aug 6, 2010 IP
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    looking4vps Peon

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    #19
    cut your losses and move on don't associate with either one
     
    looking4vps, Aug 6, 2010 IP
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    #20
    Just think positive. There are many more bigger problems in the world. If you can't handle a problem like this, then you can compete.
     
    twotango, Aug 10, 2010 IP